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    lindab235 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 21, 2013, 11:16 AM
    Dead end relationship
    I finished my dead end relationship 6 months ago and recently found out he's now seeing someone else - I keep thinking of them going out - like we did at first and everything else too I'm so miserable and can't understand why I'm like this because I was miserable with him if that makes sense - I just feel a freak!
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    Jan 21, 2013, 11:25 AM
    It is a normal reaction. Don't beat yourself up over it. But also be real with yourself in that you ended it and you had good reason to end it. Don't go backwards for settling on something bad. Search for the future relationship with someone you deserve to be with. Let that girl have Mr. Bad while you are looking for Mr. Perfect. (Note - I am taken already.)
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    Jan 21, 2013, 02:03 PM
    That is totally normal! I have been with the same guy for six years and I think I am currently in a dead end relationship, so I can think how I would feel if he started seeing someone else. I would go crazy. Just remember why you ended it. And also remember how things turned out. It was great at first, but it turned bad, and the same thing will probably happen to that other girl also. Always keep your head up and be true to yourself. You did the right thing :) In the meantime, accept those feelings you are having, embrace them, but don't let them change your mind, or keep you from being happy about your decision. You did what was right for you. Don't ever be ashamed about your feelings. You're human. :)
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