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    Asher Posts: 43, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 25, 2006, 08:57 PM
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    Yesterday, this girl I'm dating messaged me.. making it clear that we can't kiss and do anything further.. but we can only hold hands and hug each other. I think it doesn't make sense that she's telling me about this so point blank like she wants to plan everything about our relationship out. I mean, I do agree that it's not appropriate yet for us to start doing that (We knew each other for a month), but what exactly is she trying to get at? Is there any way I can work over this?
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    Nov 25, 2006, 09:00 PM
    Maybe she likes you just enough that she is afraid to move TOO fast because she doesn't want to ruin it?
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    Nov 26, 2006, 12:00 AM
    She might be worried to say it to your face but she wants you to know she doesn't want to move quickly physically. Its nothing personal. She likes you, she might just be scared to move quickly. Over time she will loosen up with you if she's comfortable and not nagged.
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    Nov 26, 2006, 02:43 AM
    Well what she means by saying that depends on the words she used.. there's 2 sides really.. she could just not want to go too far too fast which is understandable, but another things is u may have given off vibes that u want to go furthur, so she said no in advance. U get me? Only u would know which is which, try not to think about it and just have some fun with her (not that kind of fun lol) kissing and what not is not everything
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    Nov 26, 2006, 03:46 AM
    She has set her boundries and either you respect that or leave her alone. She is in no hurry and why should she be? After a month what makes you think she just wants to get physical, without knowing you a lot better? If its ex you want there are a lot more females to accommodate you so either obey her wishes or get a more willing partner.

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