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carmel · Apr 11, 2004, 04:28 PM

First of all I am ina relationship but this relationship has caused many problems for me one is infidelity which resulted in no trust what so ever and I also have a son who loves his father to death, since the infidelity I had been seeing someone who I fell madly in love with and this relationship has lasted several years now guy number 2 wants me to leave my live in boyfriend and be with him and I do but I'm scared if I do my son will hate my guts for leaving his father. I love guy number 2 with all my heart but I don't know what to do so he has decided to let the relationship go because he says he can't keep doing this he wants me all by himself and he just can't take the hurt anymore I haven't talk to him in 4 days but he keeps calling what am suppose to do

viking · Apr 19, 2004, 03:29 PM

Were you the one who was infidelitous? Why are you no longer in loe with your husband and if you aren't is it salvageable? The other guy should be more supportive of your situation and try to help yo resolve the problem instead of giving you ultimatums. If your husband knows you ave a boyfriend perhaps he is willing to let you go, and if so, you need to sit down with your husband and your son and explain to the son that sometimes things don't work out between parents but that you both still love your son and that will never change. Try to help your son see you and your husband as peopl who are struggling in the world just as he is a child who is strugggling. But make sure that he understrands that you can provide and protect him.