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leilaa111 · Jun 8, 2007, 06:37 PM

Hi I'm leila and I'm a member here I've been answering a lot of peoples questions but recently I'm so confused about my friend she was in love with this guy witch it didn't work out so she left him now she is engadged and she still is in love with her ex and she still sees him .I told her what she is doing is wrong she said she can't help it she is in love with 2 people .can that happen can a women fall in love with 2 people and what am I supposed 2 do .I feel sorry for her fiancé should I tell him what is happening or should I just let her do what she wants help me I'm so confused

whoaitspris · Jun 8, 2007, 06:57 PM

You're right. It is wrong. Its not fair to her fiancé that he is going to get only half of her heart. She really needs to take into consideration both of their feelings and figure out who she loves the most. Old flames don't die out and new ones only make the fire bigger. It's a conflict that only she can work out. I wouldn't tell her fiancé. He has a right to know but he needs for her to tell him. All you can do is stress to her that this is wrong in a lot of ways and that she needs to either get her head straight and say I do or make it clear to her fiancé that she can't let her old love go. No matter what happens someone's going to get hurt and all you can do is tell her the right thing to do and be there for her when it all goes down.

talaniman · Jun 9, 2007, 08:27 AM

All you can do as a friend is give her good, honest, advice, and be there for her with a band-aid, and comfort her, when she runs into a brick wall, and busts her head.