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    Dec 19, 2012, 01:27 AM
    Confused...
    I have been in relationship for past 2 yrs. When we met he was here studying with me but now he has moved to another place. We are in long distance relationship now and its has been almost 8 months that I have seen him. We talk regularly and I know he loves me but I am confused with what to do now. I miss him but we can't meet until late next year.

    Meanwhile I have grown likeness for another guy. He is caring and works here nearby. I don’t now what to do now.

    Should I stick to my same boyfriend or should I move on to another? Along with this long distance there are few other reasons I am growing closer to another person.

    1. He is dominating
    2. Our thinking and culture don’t match much.

    But at the end I know he loves me and care for me.

    Please help. What should I do?
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    Dec 20, 2012, 05:48 PM
    I am 70 yrs old, retired, and my wife passed on 6 yrs ago. I have been in and out of love many times before I was married 30 years ago!
    Distance sometimes "cools down" a relationship. If you like this person who is near you now, why not see him? You can have two relationships at one time.
    You can keep communicating with the long-distance person, and see this other one, too. You will decide before long, I am sure, what to do. I wish you the best, and just let things take their course.
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    Dec 20, 2012, 06:08 PM
    If you cannot stay faithful and loyal for another year then the honorable thing would be to leave rather than cheat.
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