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    Suncerary92 Posts: 22, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 18, 2012, 07:34 AM
    Close friendship/confusion
    There's this guy we've known each other for 5 to 6 years now we were good friends no arguments or anything he liked me for like 2 years then stopped because of something I did well he says he didn't like me anymore but for a whole year I stopped talking to this dude because of something that was said I was hurt and thought I was moving on but during that year I met someone then dated them thenlost my virginity to them the dude cheated on me like 3 times lied to me a lot oh yea and liked my SISTER I was so hurt then oneday the other dude I was friends with his brother found out I was dating then told him so I called him we talked I told him everything he was there for me I told him I lost my virginity he was hurt then months later he told me he didn't like me anymore of course I was hurt we would always argue I would pick the fights and I lied to him a couple of times he caught me in them and he told me plenty of times that I should move on and I apologized to him plenty of times so we stopped talking to each other for months then we would argue again then stop talking again mainly because of my issues and look you guys I'm not a bad person I respect people I'm a caring person and I don't intentionally hurt people something was just said by him so I was hurt and moved on but anyway since he told me to move on and since he didn't like me anymore I met someone else of course he complained about that to I'm confused he acts like he likes me but he says he doesn't but now we could converse with out arguing everything is going great back to how it was before I met my ex the thing is when we email sometimes he doesn't write me back after we converse so I got tired of writing him so I'm trying to move on I'm making him think I did by ignoring him but now that I'm doing that he wants to write me but I ignore him is that a good thing to do or no and by the way yes I liked him to since we met I did and still do for like five yrs now when we hang out everything is perfect that was before but we haven't seen each other in like 3 to 4 yrs now but we communicate still but I want to know why he sticks around after everything I put him through and why I can't get over him Please help!!
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    Jun 18, 2012, 07:55 AM
    This is difficult to read, can you please go back and edit this into sentences and paragraphs. How old are you by the way?
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    Jun 18, 2012, 08:02 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    This is difficult to read, can you please go back and edit this into sentences and paragraphs. How old are you by the way?
    Sorry I'm new to this just registered today and I'm 20
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    Jun 18, 2012, 08:05 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    This is difficult to read, can you please go back and edit this into sentences and paragraphs. How old are you by the way?
    And by the way how do you edit I have no clue how to use this
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    Jun 18, 2012, 10:18 AM
    You cannot get over him because you continue to talk to him. Change your contact information, make it impossible for him to find you and you go no contact forever. This cat and mouse game doesn't stop until one of you makes the decision to do so.

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