I was with my ex for 6 and half years we hadta little girl together who is now 3 since I had my little girl I did go off sex. But we still did it. We didn't go out as much as me used to.I me and my ex war always going out together. Then I got pregnant again and my ex started working all the time at the diner learning to be a chef. So I used to visit my parents and sister a lot who lived a hour away. He was working 12 hours not comeing home until 11 then their was just no family time. My ex war getting sick of his job. So he said lets move away to where my family live he got on really well with my family so I. Moved in September he was going to move down in November he just needed to finish his chef coarse. By the time he finished he kept working their I had my second baby in January he was acting real strange textin all the time being snappy to me. I just gave birth and he was shouting at me over no reason he said he didn't want to be with me then said he was just tied then he got drunk when Harley was 6 weeks old he told me he has fell out of love with me and use to being on his own... He used to come and see me and my daughter every week for 3 days he used to stay at his mates house. So I said I will move back we can be a family he didn't want that. Next week I went back to my own town to house search I needed to fix our family. A week later I found him in the pub with the girl who he works with and she has baby sat my daughter a couple of times. I was shocked. They said nothing was going on but later he phoned me that they in love. My world was over. I tried to split them up for months but they still together after 6 months after we split I hear they arguing:/ she is only 18 and he is 29 he used to call her to me saying she slept with this guy and that Guy. And now he with her. I wouldn't let her see my kids at first until he blackmailed me saying he not going to see the kids or give me money. So now they play happy familys with my kids which is awful all I want is for them to split up so I can get my family back. He not talking to me at the moment cause I had a argue with his girlfriend not long a go and called her some nasty names. I just want him back and I don't know why.. Do u think he will realise and come back. Now he wants to take my kids and her to wakes for a week. My little boy 7 months now.. its so horrible don't know what to do..

Sorry meant to say he wants to take my kids to Wales for a week with my kids Millie 3 and Harley 7 months. I just cant. Let them play happy familys... But will it put stress on them as I'm sure she won't like my kids going on their first holiday together:/ he is the bossy type so he will be telling her what. To do.. I only think he got with her cause she easy and was not getting sex off me but he offered to him on a plate:/ I have never been so upset and just don't know what to do.. I just want to be a family again

Oh yeah and he has the kids every other weekend.. And I know she with my kids too. Do u think she will get sick me him. She only young. And he now living I'm a room he says he has no money but I know he is lying.