My fiancé and I have been together for over a year now and towards the beginning I cheated on him twice with the same person. I recently told him about it because I feel so guilty and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about how I did him wrong. He's willing to try to make it work he says he needs time... lots of time to think about all this and to give me my trust back which I totally understand and he also said he doesn't know if he can believe me when I tell him I love him and care about him right now which I also fully understand.

I no longer speak to the guy I cheated on him with. I've deleted him out of my phone and blocked him on Facebook. And I am willing to do/give up anything for my fiancé. I am so lucky to have him and that he's willing to give me another chance. I'm not looking for someone to tell me I'm a whore or what a bad person I am for doing this to someone who loves me this much because I already know all that I don't need reassurance of it I am just looking for advise and opinions on how I can make him feel better and prove to him that it will never happen again and that I do truly love him and would give my life to be with him I've already told him he can read my texts anytime he wants and giving him passwords to my email and facbook.

I just don't know what to do if I could go back in time and redo everything I would have said no... any advice?

I think you keep doing what you are doing, and give it time as he suggested.