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    Apr 26, 2012, 11:35 PM
    I cheated!
    I have been in a two year relationship with my boyfriend... We get along real well and everything and I'm happy with the way things are in out relationship right now but I got a job and I fell for a guy who works with me! He is super cute and nice and sweet... Just something new.. We take our breaks together and I kissed him already.. I don't feel bad? I know it sound really horrible:( but it's the truth.. I think a lot about him and I don't know what to do? I know of I leave my boyfriend for him it won't be worth it... But if I stay ill always feel bad around him for cheating on him? In very frustrated! Please... What should I do?
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    Apr 27, 2012, 07:20 AM
    I was on your side until you crossed the lines of good behavior. Its not cheating to befriend co workers, or share breaks with them. Its not cheating to have feelings, and fantasies about others. That's human. But to act on those feelings is crossing the line, and you better handle those feelings in a better way, and get your a$$ back on the side of good behavior.

    This new crush thing will pass if you stop acting on those feeling lady, and complicating your own work experience. You made a mistake, don't make it again. Set boundaries of what's good appropriate behavior, and stick to it.
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    Apr 27, 2012, 07:33 AM
    We will always have or find a person that is fun temp, or seem exciting.. If you have such low self respect and such disrespect for your boyfriend, just see him watching you kiss this guy, think of him at work kissing a pretty girl there.

    You learn to say no and control your lust.
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    Apr 27, 2012, 10:36 AM
    If you are wanting to play around, then it is best to break up and just move on, no need for you to stay with someone to who you are not faithful too.
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