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    XxMissBxX Posts: 26, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 15, 2008, 04:11 AM
    The case of the ex
    Is it just me or does anyone else hate that their bf/gf is still talking to there ex. I have starting seeing this guy and I found out him and his ex are still good mates and he talks to her on a regular basis and it is really getting on my nerves now but I don't know why it is and I don't know why I hate him having contact with her. When I asked him why he said its cause he wants to make her jealous when he gets new girlfriends and he wants to make her see that she has made the biggest mistake of her life by ending their 6 year relationship which I thought was pretty weird and when I asked him if he still has feelings for her he said no, so why does he want to get back at her so much why can't he just get rid of her out of his life just like I have done with all my ex's and felt a lot better after it. How can I tell him in a right way that I don't want him been in contact with her cause it is making me feel upset and that how can I tell him that before he pushes me away I have tried dropping some hints to him but he says they are just mates and he wants to be with me not her but I still don't like him been in contact with her almost feels like I don't know he has had feelings for her been intimate with her it's a strange feeling what I am feelings really hard to explain hope I ent the only person who feels like this. So please write back if you have any advice or if you are in a similar situation
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    kctiger Posts: 3,653, Reputation: 1319
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    Dec 15, 2008, 07:14 AM

    You = Serious self confidence issues

    Your Current BF = Extremely immature and childish behaviour

    Together You Guys = Perfect Match

    Time to grow up. Why do you continue to be in a dysfunctional relationship... with him and with yourself?
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Dec 15, 2008, 07:34 AM

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ck-273083.html

    I am confused as I thought you were broken up?

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