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    dominicana4life Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 24, 2009, 11:02 AM
    I Can't Tell If He Likes Me.
    So I'm having boy issues. There's this one guy I like who I think keeps sending
    Me mixed signals.(HE'S 17 JUST TO CLARIFY THE AGE) I went to the movies with him and I noticed that whenever I moved farther away from him in my seat, he'd adjust to move closer to me. At one point he touched my knee to get my attention and told me that he was falling
    Asleep because the movie was so boring to him.

    There was a time when we talked on messenger and he asked me when we would see
    Each other again. When we did see each other we talked and danced and sometimes
    I would be the only girl he really hugged and stuff. Up to the that point I feel
    Confident because I think he likes me. But here's where it gets tricky:
    Sometimes he acts like I don't exist or that he doesn't care about anything and
    I'm really confused.

    I'm really confused on whether he likes me or not, and if he does, why doesn't
    He just make the move already?"
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    Jul 24, 2009, 11:05 AM
    He has definitely made moves to show that he is interested in you. Maybe you have not made it clear to him that you are interested in him.
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    Jul 24, 2009, 01:56 PM

    He can't just throw himself at your either. He's got to give you some space, or else he'll be really needy.

    If he's really interested, he will let you know. But I think he's scared of rejection, seeing that he has no idea how you feel about him.

    Why don't you determine how you feel about him first. If you're interested, then give him more subtle hints that you are interested.

    If you're not interested, then just make sure you don't lead him on.
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    Jul 24, 2009, 02:20 PM
    How does he act like you don't exist? When you are around other people?
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    Jul 24, 2009, 04:07 PM

    Guys don't always have to make the first move you know. He could be waiting for you to show a little interest.

    It is okay to directly ask him if he likes you instead of playing the guessing game. You can even do it in a playful joking matter. Just go for it!
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    Jul 24, 2009, 07:10 PM
    It doesn't matter whether we're around certain people. Sometimes he acts like he likes me and other times he acts like he doesn't even know I'm there or he doesn't care about anything. In other words: one minute we can be around one person and he'll act like he likes me and the next we can be around the same person and he'll act like he doesn't.

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