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    Jun 7, 2013, 11:55 AM
    Can't tell if my boyfriend is stressed or out of love
    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. I gave up everything to be with him and I thought he was the one. We lived 2 hours away from each other but when I got on my feet he moved in with me even though his work is 2 hours away. He drives 4 hours 5 days a week to be with me, and has been doing this for over a year now since he hasn't found a job locally yet. My problem is that when he's home, he's not affectionate. If I am sad, he gets distant. He gets mad easily at me for little things and always seems miserable unless he's zoning out to stuff on his phone. I've tried to make him happy but it's weighing on me the lack of affection. I wonder if he regrets meeting me, and investing in a life together, and if he stopped loving me, or if it's just stress. I can't bring it up since he gets mad but I feel like I'm losing him and my heart breaks every day. I try to be strong and deal but it kills me sometimes and makes me question if I should keep this up. Any advice would be appreciated.
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    Jun 7, 2013, 08:52 PM
    If you two can't honestly communicate to reach a solution then what's the point? The honeymoon is over and the real work has began and its either get busy, or get gone.

    Talk to him.
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