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    Underoath123 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 11, 2006, 08:51 PM
    I cant stop thinking about her
    A few days ago I was hanging out with a few friends... theres this one girl there that I sort of had feeings for at the time... we drank a little bit and one thing led to another and we ended up getting together... now I don't know if she likes me or wants to be with me or anything because I don't no if she thinks it was just like a one night sort of thing because we drank a little bit... but I can't stop thinking about this girl and its killing me not knowing if she has feelings for me... can someone help me out with this situation please and tell me how I can tell if she has feelings for me or how I can maybe drop these feelings if she doesn't want anything to do with me?
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    GoW Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 11, 2006, 09:04 PM
    Well I don't know if that will help you but this thing happen almost the same way as you except we didn't drank but I knew her since couple of week and we were talking only a bit so I decided to call her and to have the truth once for all and she tell me that she feel the same way as me.. the only suggestion I could have to said that you should try to talk to her about that you will be sure that you will know the truth too. I hope this could help you a liltle..
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    Underoath123 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 11, 2006, 09:12 PM
    It would help but I kind of see this girl and are with people that hang out with her everyday so if I got turned down or something like that it would be very very awkward around her and other people... if anyone has any more advice PLEASE let me know because I can't get my mind off her because alls I want is to be with her..
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    GoW Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 11, 2006, 09:23 PM
    Yea its true, or u can just wait a bit longer and try to see if she could have feelings for you while you do activities with her and her friends or your friends too, you can try to act like normal but at same time u can try to ask her some question that could tell you that she could have sentiment for you and if you feel that she have them. Well when u have your information try to ask her if she liked you like the same way as you like her , no? So ull be able to continue to see your friends with her too without thinking if she likes you or no..
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    Hurty Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 12, 2006, 12:21 AM
    I think that the best way to know is (to ask her)
    Maybe you can get out togather again and see what will happen,or simply let things gose normally...
    But I prefer you ask her,that will make you end all the Q that in your mind..
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    mrsmoz Posts: 33, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 7, 2007, 03:34 PM
    I wudnt ask her because if she doesn't feel the same way, then as you said it would be akward because you hang around together. Jus act around her as you wher the night that you slept wiv her! B nice to her and flirt a little. You should be able to if she likes u, if she makes an effort to talk to you more than ne else or sit by you and ''accidently'' put her hand on your leg or sumfin. I no when I like a boy I wudnt tell him but always talk 2him and touch skin, do you get me?
    Good luk anyway! X
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    cherrybubblesss Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 7, 2007, 03:42 PM
    I think that you should contact her and just ask her to hangout or something.if she doesn't feel the sameway,unfortunately you can't simply "drop" feelings. It will just take some time.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,290, Reputation: 10853

    Mar 7, 2007, 07:48 PM
    Of course you both have feelings after a drunken night of one thing after another but the only way to find out if there is anything else is to ask her out. Caution though, don't get you expectations up to high, alcohol makes for easy sex, not love or even like. Seldom does anything lasting come of this kind of hook-up. Don't get carried away.

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