Me and this guy have been friends for two months and I have started having feelings for him. He said that he has a four month rule before he dates. We talk to each other and text but I want to know if he is leading me on a wild goose chase or if there could be something there. Itsd driving me crazy. We flirt and play around and right now it don't go any farther than that so what do I do please help me figure this out

Why are you asking? He's given you the notification about his four-month rule. What don't you understand? There are two months left.

While I've never heard of a 4 month rule, he told you about it. SO either try and meet new people or wait until the four months is up

Way back in the day, I would never define a relationship as exclusive, unless we dated for 6 months. Your lucky you only have 4 months.

Yes I got dumped a lot, but it had to be better than jumping into something too fast, and then trying to figure a way out.

Take a chance, and see if its worthwhile, or dump the guy, and seek other options, and opportunities, your more comfortable with.

No sex until you figure it out, and don't get carried away with your feelings, because he obviously isn't.

Maybe you should have your own boundaries of good behavior, as does he.