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    adilene1988 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Jan 13, 2009, 03:03 PM
    break up
    hey I recently have gone through a break up=[
    and he still keeps on calling me and tells me that he loves my and stuff that I really don't want to hear anymore. How can I let him know without hurting him? :confused:
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    Jan 13, 2009, 03:46 PM

    Change your phone number. He will get the hint sooner or later.
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    Jan 14, 2009, 06:33 PM
    Stop answering the phone, and have no more conversations. If he persists tell him to leave you alone. If that doesn't work change your number, if that still doesn't work, call a cop! He is a stalker.
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    Jan 14, 2009, 06:59 PM

    Tell him to join this forum.. then we can all tell him to initiate NC and he can get over you!
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    Jan 15, 2009, 06:54 AM

    Maybe you can have one good chat and explain your position/stand with him and request for NC. Then go NC.
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    Jan 16, 2009, 02:30 PM

    I don't think there is anyway to NOT hurt him. He feels rejected and is sacrificing his dignity to get you back. I wouldn't answer the phone when he calls. That would be a start.
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    Jan 16, 2009, 02:34 PM

    Sometimes you have to be hard on someone in order for them to know you mean business.

    Tell him what we had is over there is no chance we will ever be together again and I want you to move on with your life as I have. Don't call me anymore! Hang up!

    If he still persists follow the above advice.
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