How long have you been with this girl?
How much time did she have between you, and the ex?
How old are you?
Personally, just ME, when a partner wants a break, I give it to them.
When a partner is still talking to an ex, I let them.
In both cases, I leave alone, and do my thing, and let them do theirs. Stop and think for a second. Does it matter how much you love/want someone, if they don't want you the same way? To me it makes a HUGE difference to have a partner you have to beg and convince, and one who is committed as you.
Working together through honest communications is the choice of mutually and equally committed partners, not "see ya, I have something better to do, thats more important to me".
My response is "cool, see ya around!". Then disappear, and build a life that I enjoy, WITHOUT them in it.
Just me though.
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