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    prettypeach20 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 12, 2010, 01:15 AM
    Boys: would you give a girl specific days if you didn't want to hang out?
    So I asked my ex boyfriend who was also a friend (5 months prior to dating-->we only dated a month due to some things going on in his life) to chill 2 months after he broke up with me. He responded by telling me that he is free on 5 specific days and that his schedule is all messed up/confusing right now and that we will be in touch. Anyway, from those days I picked about 3 that work for me and asked him if we could chill then. He never responded and all those day's passed. However, he does respond if I text him or anything... questions for you boys:
    1. would you give a girl (ex girlfriend who was a friend before) day's you were free if you didn't want to see her?
    2. why would he ignore it? (I know he read the message)
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    Romefalls19 Posts: 4,739, Reputation: 1130
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    Jan 12, 2010, 06:42 AM

    1. Yes, I never wanted to hang out with my ex when I had hockey or football on. She just annoyed me with 80,000 questions

    2. Maybe he read it, something came up and forgot to respond.

    Are you trying to get back with him?
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    Jan 12, 2010, 11:55 AM
    Ex girlfriends are pretty much the lowest priority, at least for me. Doesn't matter if we are friends or not, the fact is we dated and it didn't work out. There's probably still some held back resentment or jealousy if you're with another guy. Maybe he's worried that he still has feelings for you and he doesn't want to see you because he knows it wouldn't work. Anyway, what I'm saying is if he had other friends who wanted to hang out, his family was going to dinner, or even if his favorite TV show was on, any of those would be grounds to blow you off. Then there's the possibility he really just doesn't care and gave you those days to make you happy, even though he had no intention of following through.
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