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Ruibudleo · Oct 18, 2013, 07:38 AM

So I would say I'm a pretty open minded girl ecpecially when it comes to sexuality. When I first caught my boyfriend watching porn I wasn't too happy about it. I got insecure jealous blah blah just like every other girl. Well I asked him to try to stop for me and he did try for a while. I never asked or nagged about it again then one night he himself brought up how he watches porn because it gives him ideas for the bedroom. I did not like his comment, I saw it as a stupid excuse. But then instead of arguing about I thought about it from his point of view and later told him I was curious and wanted to try watching it myself maybe I can learn some stuff. His face immediately changed he said he didn't care or know what to think. He looked weirded out and I felt awkward after I said. But also upset because how could he watch it but get offended when I say I might try to watch it? I don't get it. Was it a weird thing for me to say. Any opinions?

Michlania · Oct 25, 2013, 10:41 PM

Mabye he thinks its okay for guys to watch it just not girls or he was really using that as an exscuse for something but lets give him the benefit of the doubt

Marsoccer1 · Oct 25, 2013, 10:53 PM

If you find the answer let me know. My girl will cover my eyes if there is a scantily clad woman in a movie but will look at pictures of male models and tell me how attracted she is to them. Oh, how I loathe it

mmresd · Nov 5, 2013, 06:17 PM

Personally I don't think there is anything wrong with watching porn, he is probably just feeling that you felt when you first found out about it. Maybe he though that only men watched or were interested in porn, I think is safe to say that men don't usually find out otherwise till they are a bit older. Maybe ask to watch it along with him?