I have been dating my boyfriend for 7 years now and have been living together for almost 2 of them. The problem is he doesn't seem to be attracted or interested in me anymore. It all started changing slowly and gradually when we moved in together. He's still very nice to me but yet he doesn't really ever just kiss me or hug me anymore... We haven't had sex in weeks. I keep trying to talk to him about it and I ask him what's wrong and he always says nothing is wrong and he's sorry and will work on it yet nothng ever changes. I'm a very emotioal person and I need affection in my life and due to there not being Any sexual or emotional affection between us I'm feeling upset, sad, mad, frustrated, guilty. I can't help but feel like he's not attracted to me anymore. I've gained about 15 pounds in college and have yet to shed it since graduating even though I'm working on it. He's very judgemental towards me about my weight and I sometimes feel like he resents me because if it. There also seems to be some pressure there about marriage from our family and I wanted to and he's clearly stated to me that he's not at all ready for that. Which is fine but I can't live in this relationship any longer without getting the affection I need. I don't understand him. I feel like he's hiding something and/or true feelings about me and/or our relationship and is just too cowardly or scared to admit it. What do u guys think??