How do I get my boyfriend back? Its officially been three weeks sense we broke up (23 days) he broke up with me because he was really stressed out and he has a lot going on with his family he said "he just can't do it right now" the day after we broke up he came over to get his stuff.. we were together for 6 months and he pretty much lived with me for 2.. When he came to get his stuff we talked for like 10 minutes and all he really said was he "needs time to get his head straight" I asked him if we could work things out and all but he said he couldn't do it right now.. I hadn't talked to him sense until 4 days ago, I ran into him in town he was with a bunch of his friends and I wasn't even going to talk to him until his friend called me over.. I ended up going over talking for like 2 seconds and giving him something I still had that belonged to him.. I still have some of his other stuff and he has mine but he doesn't want to talk to me.. I don't know why, really I have done absolutely nothing wrong he broke up with me completely out of the blue and for pretty much no reason at all.. he said I could just give his stuff to out mutual friend and hed do the same with mine... but I don't want that I want to actually be able to talk to him.. at the very least to just know what happened, the only time I've seen him he was with hs friends, I still love him more than anything and being near him scares me so bad, I was so nervous I was skahing SOO hard when I was talking to him, I love him so much, truly I do but when I'm near him I just feel like he's going to shut me down or he hates me or something, I don't know what to do.. please help, that's my story but I need to know how I can get him back.. I know he still loves me he said so when he came to get his stuff he sat down on my bed and said "he didnt want to leave yet" and when he was leaving he was like "i love you, ill call you tonight" he didn't call.. but for a good reason and he texted me to explain but after that, we hadn't talked sense.. until I seen him, I texted him the other day because our mutual friend gave me one of my things.. my ex only gave him ONE thing and kept the rest.. we talked for a while and I ended up asking him some questions I needed answers to.. I asked him if he still loved me when he broke up with me and he said "when i left yes i did but now ive lost feelings" how is it even possible to loose freelings that fast, literally 3 weeks ago he was telling me he loved me and he wanted to spend his life with me and he didn't know what he would do without me.. what do I do?? I truly love this guy more than anything in the world, he is everything to me and I need to get him back, I know we wernt together very long but I truly believe he is the one for me.. please help me how do I get him back?

He's doing no contact, because he's done with the relationship. There's no reason for him to contact you because he's trying to move on. You should do the same.

Unforunately most relationships which end, end badly and someone gets hurt. He doesn't want you back.

Not that there is any chance of reconciliation but the best thing to do is to go no contact, do not reply to any of his feelers if there any 'how are you?' he may just be concerned that your not doing OK as he isn't a bad person but has no 'loving' feelings towards you anymore.

Let him get on with his life. Do not meet him or put you in a situation where you will meet him until you no longer care. You may find then he comes to you when he sees you have moved on. If not then it wasn't meant to be :)

Sorry but there is no easy way out of the pain, there is no easy way of being dumped and there is no easy way of ever getting them back.

Keep your dignity at least and leave him be.