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    playful child Posts: 19, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 4, 2007, 09:12 AM
    My boyfriend doesn't think I care
    Hi its me again I just don't understand one day he loves me the next day he can't stand me well anyway my boyfriend thinks that I don't care about him last night I asked him what was wrong and he said why do you care now should I talk to him about it or should I just leave him in the dust because I do care and he thinks I don't but I do and its just to hard to deal with this I need some advice or something please help
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    phillysteakandcheese Posts: 973, Reputation: 356
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    Jun 4, 2007, 07:42 PM
    If this guy has problems he can't handle, he needs get help for himself to resolve them. You can't fix him or his problems. Talking about deep subjects is one thing, but you're not his amateur therapist. You can encourage him to get help, but that's all you can do. If you think he is worth this up and down rollercoaster ride, stick it out...

    If this guy is playing games, using sympathy and self-pity to get attention and guilt you into feeling sorry for him, you are playing a game where he controls all the rules. You'll always be reacting to his latest play at being the victim. Ifyou think he's worth all this emotional drama, stick it out...

    Personally - I would tell him to take the time he needs to get himself together and move on from this relationsip. Maybe by the time he is all together, you'll be able to be with him and truly enjoy who he has become. More likely though, you'll find someone less dysfunctional and find them more fun and worth you time and attention.
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    leilaa111 Posts: 65, Reputation: 5
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    Jun 5, 2007, 02:49 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by playful child
    hi its me again i just dont understand one day he loves me the next day he can't stand me well anyways my boyfriend thinks that i dont care about him last night i asked him what was wrong and he said why do u care now should i talk to him about it or should i just leave him in the dust because i do care and he thinks i dont but i do and its just to hard to deal with this i need some advice or something please help
    HE PROBABLEY just like that he probabley didn't mean what he said men say a lot of things when there upset so I don't think you should streess over it hun
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    leilaa111 Posts: 65, Reputation: 5
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    Jun 5, 2007, 02:50 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by playful child
    hi its me again i just dont understand one day he loves me the next day he can't stand me well anyways my boyfriend thinks that i dont care about him last night i asked him what was wrong and he said why do u care now should i talk to him about it or should i just leave him in the dust because i do care and he thinks i dont but i do and its just to hard to deal with this i need some advice or something please help
    He maybe said it like that didn't mean it I mean
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