I have been in my current relationship for 10 months and everything is going great. But my boyfriend seems like he is controlling I really think so but I kind of think it's love because I've never had a man care about my whereabouts like that. He tells me it's to know where I am in case something happens. Then we have a bit of an age difference about 5 years I'm older and he's younger sometimes I feel like he's a bit intimidated about my age he told me one time before that he normally dates women younger than him. No problem but he always wants me around him and I'm not complaining its just that I don't don anything but go to work and back home I rush back trying to get back to him. Normally I like to visited my family and my friends but now they call me anti- social and I am not none of that I even find myself not spending enough time with my 6 year little boy this guy is awesome and I love him so much he is so attentive caring fun to be with and very charming I love this man so much but I'm sort of of a family person and he's not what should I do. I love to visit my parents were a very close knit family an he's not he is always s telling me that I'm grown and not a kid I should not visit so much at least I'm not at a club somewhere I just need a break some time not all the time and when I'm at home its sex sex sex hell with I'm tired from working 13 long hours

Yes it does sound like he is a bit controlling! Trust me you should stop this before it goes to far. It is NOT worth it. If he loved you he would trust you. It is good to let him know where you are but it sounds like he is taking it a little too far. Don't make your son suffer because of him. Not even your family--- You should always put your son and family first. If he can not understand then get rid of him. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders so use it! GOOD LUCK- and let me know how things work out.

This is nonsense to break up with a good guy just because he likes to be with u and because he doesn't allow you to be "social". I'm not saying it's right, but I am saying to talk to him and let him know how you feel about everything... 3 strikes and you're out. I'm sure if you tell him it's really bothering you he will change something. If not tell him u need a break and when you come back after a week or 2 he will get the point and he will learn. But don't just break up... Know what I mean. Communicate everything first at the very least. Also, did you get him used to this type of living and all of a sudden want a change because people are calling you anti-social? Many things to consider. But at the end it's your choice... Good luck!

[Sorry, but I think your wrong.
Listen, Ive been in a relashipnship for 10 months now and am with a verry controlling boyfriend. Doesn't like it when I go out with friends, family etc. Doesn't want me talking to guys, no associationg with anyone. I am not allowed to wear certain things, say certain things. Nothing! Get out of that relashion ship while you can dear,because once youv fallen, its hard to get out. Its not good to be with each other all the time. Make it worth wild your life and he shouldn't be everything in your life, only a part. Good luck! Take care

This question is almost two years old. I wonder how it turned out...