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    kellyandben1234 Posts: 21, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 10, 2008, 05:48 AM
    My boyfriend cheated
    Hi my boyfriend cheated on me has I said .am still trying to forgive him but I don't trust him at all . But I now I found out that he has been flirting with other girs:(
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    Jan 10, 2008, 06:17 AM
    Leave him. No girl deserves that. If he doesn't want to be faithful find someone who will.
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    Jan 10, 2008, 07:10 AM
    Yeah if you forgive him there will be distrust and LOTS of pain
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    Jan 10, 2008, 07:24 AM
    Don't go there, get rid of the loser. If he could do that to you then he's not worthy of your time
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    Jan 10, 2008, 07:44 AM
    I don't know anybody who would be with someone after they cheated on them. No offense hun but it sounds like you have a very low self esteem to still stay with him. Quote "Once a cheater, always a cheater."
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    Jan 10, 2008, 07:46 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by alyssarox32
    I don't know anybody who would be with someone after they cheated on them. No offense hun but it sounds like you have a very low self esteem to still stay with him. Quote "Once a cheater, always a cheater."
    I know but I've lost all my confindes
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    Jan 10, 2008, 08:02 AM
    Why should you lose confidence over his actions? Get rid of the loser and feel better, once he is behind you. Give yourself a chance to heal, by working on yourself, without him in your life.
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    Jan 10, 2008, 08:17 AM
    I honestly think the worst thing you can do to a person is cheat and if he cheated on you then there may be a reason but there is no reason to forgive. Don't trust him. Break it off. No person needs that in there life.
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    Jan 10, 2008, 10:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kellyandben1234
    hi my boyfriend cheated on me has i said .am still trying to forgive him but i dont trust him at all . but i now i found out that he has been flirting with other girs:(
    leave him.
    you can find someone better.
    once a cheater; always a cheater.
    don't go back to him,
    he'll make you vulnerable. =/
    no girl deserves that you can get better, it may take time.
    go out with some girlfriends. :)
    have fun.
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    Jul 25, 2008, 01:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kellyandben1234
    hi my boyfriend cheated on me has i said .am still trying to forgive him but i dont trust him at all . but i now i found out that he has been flirting with other girs:(
    BABE TAKE IT FROM ME, I JUST LEFT MY BOYFRIEND 2 DAYS AGO SO U SHOULDVE LEFT HIS BEHIND A LONG TIME AGO, GETTING BACK WITH HIM MEANS U FORGIVE HIM FOR CHEATING AND U ARE ALLOWING HIM TO DO IT AGAIN!!!! I KNO ITS HARD, DO WHAT IVE BEEN DOING FOR TWO DAYS, INVITE FREINDS TO COME OVER HANG OUT AND LAUGH BUT DO NOT TALK ABOUT HIM!! AND BLAST UR FAVORITE SONGS :) YOULL BE FINE, RITE NOW WHO IS SUFFERING? YOU ...WHEN U LEAVE HIM AND MOVE ON AND MAYBE BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE WHO WILL BE HURTING THAN?? HIM :)
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    Jul 25, 2008, 02:05 PM
    Dump him, he isn't worth it, and move on.
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    Jul 26, 2008, 04:32 PM
    I cheated on my girlfriend about a year ago and she never left me but she made it clear if anything happened again we were through. She told me that I would have to make it up to her and prove to her that I can be trusted again. I think you should tell your boyfriend the same and if he doesn't agree get rid of him
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    Jul 26, 2008, 11:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by gerardymolawd
    i cheated on my girlfriend about a year ago and she never left me but she made it clear if anything happened again we were through. she told me that i would have to make it up to her and prove to her that i can be trusted again. i think you should tell your boyfriend the same and if he doesnt agree get rid of him
    Istanbul rockss!
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    Jul 26, 2008, 11:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kellyandben1234
    hi my boyfriend cheated on me has i said .am still trying to forgive him but i dont trust him at all . but i now i found out that he has been flirting with other girs:(
    And plus when your leave him you pain is guna be temporary and if you stay you are allowing him to treat you this way.. and that's not going to be temporaryy :/
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    Nov 10, 2008, 05:04 PM

    Here's my story... I started dating this guy that I thought was the best thing that could have happened to me. He went on a business trip, he really didn't call me much just txted a lot. When he came back I found out that he had been talking to his X and telling her things that really hurt me like that he still loved her. At first he denied it all, but later admitted to it. I was a wreck but thought that I was going to be able to overcome that. How can I forget what happened? Or at least learn to live without it hurting so much. I already forgave him, but me not being able to get over that is causing so many problems for us.
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    Nov 11, 2008, 06:08 AM

    When you chose to forgive, you have to forget as well. But this thread is months old, please start a new one instead of hijacking someone else's
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    Nov 11, 2008, 08:41 AM

    I was there girl... and it does not get better. I stayed for a whole year after he cheated on me trying to make it right. I blamed myself mostly! However, the truth is, it was not my fault at all. I never trusted him after that no matter how hard I tried and I was so unhappy. Every time he did not answer his phone, or he was late I had knots in my stomach I never believed his excuses and guess what, he did it again. Don’t waste your time, you will get over it let yourself heal because if you waste your time staying it's going to be nothing but misery for you!!

    Stay strong you deserve sooooooo much more honey xoxo
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    Mar 29, 2011, 02:47 PM
    Leave him while you can. I'm still trying to leave my boyfriend and its quite hard since we've been going out for so long. Hope this helps:P
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