What's up Everybody What it do? Okay I am new to this site. And I have a question. Ready?
All right I have a boyfriend we have been going out for 4 years. We love each other and all that good stuff, have a good time together n all.
But... in these 4 years that we have been going out homeboy has never had a real job. He had a big surgery and he's in pain a lot and he says that he can't work because of the pain but I know for a fact he is capable. Also since his surgery he got addicted to pain pills. So since he doesn't work, he's almost always broke. N I don't have that much money either but I'm always the one who pays for everything. Food, gas, etc. He borrows money and says he will pay me back. But he has never paid me back in the 4 years that we have been dating. So Im getting tired of him being broke and I keep thinking that his will get a job but it's just not happenin'. And his drug mentality; when he does get money, he'll spend it on drugs. He's never even taken me out to eat or on a date before because he would rather buy drugs. And I can't count how many times I have stolen drugs or paid for him to get some drugs. The guy has got a good heart and is overall a good person but his drug mentality is just getting worse. And when I try to talk to him about money and that he needs to get a job he gets angry about it. I keep feeling like something's going to work out for him someday but its just not happening. So if anybody has some advice or something to say. Lay it on me.

My boyfriend was like that over the 1st summer we dated. I couldn't take it! I paid for his gas our dates and finally I had enough I told him I was tired of it and that he should be paying for his own bills and half of what we do. He didn't know it bothered me and as soon as I told him he found a job and things have been amazing ever since!