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lostxxunloved · Jan 3, 2007, 07:17 PM

I have been so confused these last few days.My ex boyfriend his name is julian and two days ago we made out in his aunts hallway(no one was there) and he broke up with me two years ago and last year we went out again but he broke up with me.I sometimes wonder why he still makes out with me... because he likes me or I'm just a booty call?:confused: Well when we were making out Im pretty sure he knew I didn't want to be there.He then stopped and said you want the truth?so I said you and he said that since he broke up with me he's been wanting to ask me out but he doesn't know why he hasent yet.After we just kept making out but I wannna know, does he use me as a booty call or not?and if he really meant what he said? In the past(last year) when we were still broken up we would also make out and he be like I really missed you and I don't know why I broke up with you and stuff but he doesn't make any action to that.

manimuth · Jan 3, 2007, 07:46 PM

It is so easy to keep going back to an ex because of the closeness, familiarity, and history. Saying he has been wanting to to ask you out but hasn't yet or how much he missed you is not good enough for you to let him use you for make-out sessions. The way you were uncomfortable making out with him and your doubts about his intentions are your instinct telling you that you are being used. The next time he starts sweet talking, tell him that you have heard it all before and to talk to you after he figures out what he wants.

ForeverZero · Jan 3, 2007, 07:58 PM

Guys who behave like this in my experience are generally trying to keep you waiting for him. They usually are working somebody else on the side, but want to keep you there just in case it doesn't work out. I personally think he's just keeping you as a backup plan. That's why he keeps going back out with you and breaking up with you, then re-initiating it again.

talaniman · Jan 3, 2007, 09:37 PM

Stop making out and see what happens.

Fr_Chuck · Jan 3, 2007, 09:49 PM

Could he have a entire lists of past friends, and he comes back because he knows he can "make out" when he does, he could be between new friends, just in the mood and his current girlfriend working and who knows a 1000 other reason

The real question is why do you keep doing it?

lburkins · Jan 3, 2007, 10:41 PM

Originally Posted by lostxxunloved

i have been so confused these last few days.My ex boyfriend his name is julian and two days ago we made out in his aunts hallway(no one was there) and he broke up with me two years ago and last year we went out again but he broke up with me.I sometimes wonder why he still makes out with me....because he likes me or im just a booty call?:confused: Well when we were making out Im pretty sure he knew I didnt want to be there.He then stoped and said you want the truth?so i said ya and he said that since he broke up with me hes been wanting to ask me out but he doesnt know why he hasent yet.After we just kept making out but I wannna know, does he use me as a booty call or not?and if he really ment what he said?.In the past(last year) when we were still broken up we would also make out and he be like I really missed you and I dunno why I broke up with you and stuff but he doesnt make any action to that.

Basically he tells you what he thinks you want to hear. I think you need to stop having sex with him. There is somebody for everybody you just have to be patient and wait. Why continue to hurt yourself. I don't think this person is in love with you. I think he knows that wahtever he wants he can have. Due to the fact he know you are not going to turn him down. Why allow him to have control over you. Please love yourself enough not to hurt yourself anymore. Love him enough to let him go. Love makes you feel good and its when you enjoy each other. Love isn't one sided. Please listen to Beyonce song irreplaceable or to the left.Good luck!

chuff · Jan 3, 2007, 10:45 PM

Yep you're a Booty Call.