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    blondndisguise5 Posts: 78, Reputation: 7
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    Dec 24, 2008, 04:29 PM
    Better to stay or go away when the new girlfriend comes up
    Merry christmas you guys! So my ex of 3 years broke up with me got a new girlfriend within a month and now over break he is bringing her home. We share the same group of close friends so I would have to see her... but instead I was thinking of visiting my big sis in my sorority when the girl comes up. I know I can't run away from it forvever but its only been like 2 months since he and I broke up and I feel like leaving is better then staying and reacting you know? Anyway does anyone have any advice? Is this a good idea?

    Ps I went NC and I am doing REALLY well with dealing with my broken heart and getting back out there so if people need advice id love to try and help
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    Dec 24, 2008, 07:06 PM

    Have a blast with big sis.
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    Dec 24, 2008, 07:11 PM

    Tell your big sis high for me... you are making the right choice with her.
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    Dec 24, 2008, 07:13 PM

    I agree with Tal. I would go have a good time with sis, and not give them the opportunity to bring back old memories! It's very kind of you to offer to help others out. I'm sure there are many that could use a kind word this time of year especially!
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    Dec 24, 2008, 10:46 PM

    Big Sis all the way. Plus I'm betting she'll love to spend time with you!
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    Dec 25, 2008, 01:10 AM

    Yep go have fun with the family, can't go wrong with that. No point to lose what progress you have made in what could turn out to be worse than any pervious fights or arguments with the ex you have had before.
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    Dec 25, 2008, 10:51 AM
    Yeah... I agree with everyone.

    Your Big Sis, will take care of you!
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    Dec 25, 2008, 01:04 PM

    I vote for Big Sis also, let us know how it goes
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    Dec 25, 2008, 01:11 PM

    Agree with all the posts above... go have fun with your sis.
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    Dec 25, 2008, 03:21 PM

    Big Sis. Get your party on!!
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    Dec 25, 2008, 04:03 PM

    ... omiplomi, I have no idea what that post just said.

    Blondie, I agree that since it's the holidays, you should go see your sister. However, like you said, you can't run away from this forever. If I were you, and I didn't have a big sister to visit, I would go meet this heads on, and act completely nonchalant, to show the ex how you're doing. However, you do have a big sis, so go all out, and have a good time with your family.
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    Dec 25, 2008, 04:33 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by omiplomi View Post
    I disagree wiv every1 I wud b brave and meet her u mite even find u like he ru never no xxx gud luck woteva u choose 2 do
    Too much eggnog mate?
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