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    Jan 25, 2013, 04:54 AM
    Best friends dating and breaking up
    My best friends started dating a few months ago but it was low-key. She told me about it back then. Then, he recently dumped her and she was already depressed of some drama with my other friends. I've never seen her that way.

    My best friend was my crush and he's one of my close friends and he's just amazing. I admitted to him and we left the past behind. I moved on and it went from crush to best friend. He can be shy sometimes but he's a person who you can talk to about anything. We have this strong connection that we tend to be mysterious but that's how we communicate and there is no awkwardness (thank goodness).

    Anyway, my heart just sank because she told me that she felt dead on the inside. I was there to comfort her. So, I got her side of the story and then I called him and ask him for advice and that eventually popped into my head. He even told me that he got mad at her but I don't know why exactly. These are my really close friends and I have a feeling that something is going to happen that it's going to get to the point that I might have to choose sides. What am I going to do now?
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    Jan 25, 2013, 07:43 AM
    Stop getting in the middle of it. You already placed yourself in the firing zone by asking g one, then calling the other. It is not your business and the more you make it your business, the more likely it is to go bad for you.
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