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    Jan 20, 2013, 04:07 AM
    I ask my best friend to be my girlfriend
    Hi every one I ask my best friend to be my girlfriend. Let me start by saying that I don't see her every day if I see her is every 2 weeks or every month but now I have the change to go when ever I wanted to go see her. One day I invited her to eat and I put everything on the table, I told her I love her and that I have been thinking of her every day. She just didn't say anything and I kept talking and told her iwith me she would be safe I would take care of her and make her happy, the thing that said after that made think I saw her face" girls want a boyfriend a best friend andget to know him....you know me you can be your self with me you dont you know i am very loyal...

    She didnt said can i think about it i told her "Yes"and we kept talking regular stuff she kept texting me that day to get online ps3 and play games. i whaiting 2 weeks i didnt said anything i show up at her house and got her red roses she love roses she look at me and didnt say nothign no thank you or anything we went to eat and around 10pm at night we were at her house she got dress and left with her 2 best friends they are 2 gay guys that are boyfriends but they like to go to gay clubs and she just left i was there by my self with her mom.

    Before she left her mom and her was laughing or mumble about the flowers that got her the only thing i herd but i acted like i didnt hear was so what happend did you told him and when she left 15 minute latter i got my stuff and left. when i was about to leave she was out side with her gay friend she saw me leaving and she look at me and didnt stop i acted like i didnt see her and came home i dont know if to feel like crap or she is going to tell me" I don't want anything with you"
    i will respect her desicions i am not going to get mad i will lover no matter what evendo inside i am broken so i am still whaiting for her answer

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    Jan 20, 2013, 04:31 AM
    It sounds like she just isn't attracted to you in a romantic love way, sorry. It wasn't fair of her to not tell you within a short time of you announcing your love. She's being much too coy and taking advantage of your feelings by keeping you hanging. If you want to keep being in love, go ahead, but I suspect that you will be getting more angry than hurt sometime soon. She's being selfish and unfair, and you will lose your integrity if you keep going this way.
    (BTW if her two best friends are the gay guys, how is she your best friend?)
    Ask yourself - what hurts more, the pain of separation or the pain of being a fool?

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