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DownandOut25 · Dec 14, 2011, 09:40 AM

My boyfriend and I have been together almost 5 years and always get into arguments, but always make up for it by not talking or we have sex. This time I really pissed him off. We're not broken up, but I have to go home for a while. Do you think we should work it out this time, or should I save it and go home?

TrueFaith · Dec 14, 2011, 11:30 AM

Can't give you any advice. Until we know what the fight is about

You can't just say I pissed him off can we work it out?

Work what out?

Oh if you cheated then forget any sympathy.
And a no on the working out
:)

talaniman · Dec 14, 2011, 01:58 PM

Not much to go with here unless you wanted this moved to the psychics forum.

More info please.

DownandOut25 · Dec 14, 2011, 09:51 PM

It's the things I do to him to piss him off

My boyfriend always take everybody else's side and protect and defend them but when I tell my side of the story he doesn't want to listen and hear me out nor take my side or protect and to defend me and I'm his girlfriend and I'm pissed off what should I do

talaniman · Dec 14, 2011, 10:00 PM

Such as?? Come on, what's the whole story??

brokenheartpain · Dec 14, 2011, 10:47 PM

I think that you have been in a long relationship with your partner and after a while you lose sight on what you have. Remember it is hard out in single land to find someone who you love and trust so if he stands by your side and respects you I think you owe him the same because if you do decide to end things for no real reson you may regret it later and never get a chance 2 prove that you love him

DownandOut25 · Dec 15, 2011, 12:04 AM

Such as?? Come on, what's the whole story??

Call or text numbers that be in his phone, check his phone records, write girls that want him as his friend in Facebook.. I'm trying to stop and change but I don't know what to do...

Wondergirl · Dec 15, 2011, 12:05 AM

Why do you feel so insecure, like you must supervise everything he does? Are you worried about losing him?

DaniCalifornia · Dec 15, 2011, 01:15 AM

You should talk to him and ask if there's a reason for this. Who is it you argue with?

X Dani

DownandOut25 · Dec 19, 2011, 09:02 PM

Now he doesn't want to look or talk to me! Ever since my accident I just feel that we can't go anywhere romantic and just hang out to have alone time. Instead he'd rather hang out with his friends and then say they're more important than I am! I understand that he doesn't hang out with them all the time. I just want his attention and some alone time with him, that's all I want! What am I doing wrong? Now he says he doesn't know if he wants to be in a relationship and doesn't want to say "I'm breaking up with you"... all this stuff that's going on, I'm trying to change and he doesn't see that... everything that happening to me is moving so fast!

Wonder girl I am afraid of losing him

Wondergirl · Dec 19, 2011, 10:32 PM

What will happen to you if you lose him?

DownandOut25 · Dec 26, 2011, 07:27 PM

Ok this morning me and my boyfriend had sex and it was hot and intimate as usual! Then all a sudden his phone vibrates and he checks and it's a text message! I was like can you like not do that then he tells me I do that and I said no I don't and he says yes you do,and I was like whatever! I was mad when you have sex with the person you love and that you've been with for a long time it makes no sense for a guy to answer his phone for a call or text,because when a guy does that it just ruins everything... I wanted to break his damn phone... I almost cried, why do guys do that s&#$..?

Fr_Chuck · Dec 26, 2011, 07:35 PM

Women do it to, it is a person thing, not a guy thing

DownandOut25 · Dec 26, 2011, 08:07 PM

Yeah but u guys do it like all the time NON STOP!

Wondergirl · Dec 26, 2011, 08:46 PM

None of the guys I'm ever with do it. Maybe it has to do with how much he respects you and values his time with you.

odinn7 · Dec 26, 2011, 08:51 PM

Yeah... uh... I don't do it. So with that said, I'm thinking you are judging all guys based on this one guy who doesn't seem to respect you as much as he does his phone.

DownandOut25 · Dec 26, 2011, 10:47 PM

Uh huh OK

talaniman · Dec 27, 2011, 11:58 AM

Can't you guys set some boundaries of good behavior that works for you both?

Like don't have sex until all the phones are off?? Then at least you won't fight about that subject. Not during sex any way. He is one who seems to live through his phone.

It's a big red flag when a couple only have a good time during sex, and even that's rather shaky. Besides the sex, what is good about this relationship?

DownandOut25 · Jan 1, 2012, 08:34 PM

I recently came back into my hometown to focus on me. Me and my boyfriend argue a lot and he says I'm smothering him and he needs his space! I just didn't want to leave him alone but maybe leaving to him and me was the best thing to do to better our relationship. Now I'm worried about the things he does since I'm not with him anymore. I trust him and he told me millions of times he'd never cheat on me... it drives me crazy knowing who he's on the phone with,which he's texting... etc! I don't know what to do & I need help..

talaniman · Jan 2, 2012, 06:43 PM

You came home to focus on you, so focus, and stop worrying about things you can't control. I frankly don't even see the point of being with someone you can't talk to, or worse, afraid to trust. Maybe you do need help, but what was the agreement before you left? Are you on a break? Still together? What?