My o so good friend decided to casually drop in my best mates and my conversation that my ex is seeing some guy, (a model), MAN I FEEL DOWN! : ' ( cry cry

Onwards and upwards. Who needs an ex - NO ONE I SAY NO ONE :p

Yeah it isn't fun Jiser but just part of life.

I got a funny story for you actually that just happened to me on the weekend.

I was out at a club and ran into my ex. She was talking to some guy who I just presumed might be her boyfriend. Didn't bother me too much.

Anyway, when I was leaving I walked out the front door and jumped straight into a cab and who should be sitting in the front seat but my ex. Wow, what a coincidence. I just said well you can drop me past my place on your way to your mum's house. They are fairly close.

She then had to tell me that she was not going home but rather to where she lives with her new boyfriend in their own place.

Bit of a kick in the guts. 18 months ago we were planning our loves together now she has a new boyfriend that she's living with.

Sorry Jiser, I don't mean to make this about me, but I just wanted to show you that it happens and the only thing we can do is shrug our shoulders and move forward again. For me it has actually turned into another milestone for me. It was another big step forward in my recovery.

Maybe you can try and see it that way too. It isn't a nice thought but just think, it was going to happen sooner or later. So at least you have found out sooner and you can put it behind you and get back to living your own life.

I am not sure whether to ask her next time I speak to her on Msn or not if she is seeing someone else. Thing is she's meant to be coming to a dance festival with me and a friend. Probably don't want her there if she is dating anyone else.

Might just come out with "Do not contact me ever again :) !"

Do agree with you there skell though, every time I here somehting like she is with someone else and she kissing some guy, It pushes me deeper into recovery :P

Yeah Jiser,

My ex just got official with a new girl. Ouch it really burns. But I also had sweet revenge so I feel like Im ready to wash my hands of all this. Don't have her come with you she doesn't deserve it I don't care if she says she's your friend. This is about your recovery, and you can't do it without getting away from her completely. Besides, with you and your buddies it will be easier to talk to new girls, with her there you'll be all about her

I really don't understand why you are having contact with her though. Is ti necessary? I doubt it.

Just leave her to live her life and live your own.

There is not need to be in contact with her on MSN, or go to festivals with her.

Hahaha, sorry for laughing Jiser, but I find you really lovely and funny, seriously. I've been reading all your posts and comments, and I kind of have no clue about what kind of person you are, sometimes really tough, sometimes so sweet and hurtful. But I like it!

JISER You talk so much sense and hand out such great advice to everyone else but COMO ON WAKE UP you are doing yourself no favours evening talking to your EX .This should have been over long ago NO Contact and she either would have been calling you or you would not no what she is doing. Why would you even want to speak to her. Clear her out of your life starting from today!!

Do This Now for God sake, you have nothing to lose but so much to gain by not communicating with her.

You will never be truly over her unless you cut all ties from her. She is not worth it. Do it for yourself totally no contact.

If you have to ring her up one last time and tell her you heard she had a new boyfriend and it wouyld be best if the two of you had no more contact. Tell her you wish her a happy life and all the best. You tried uyour best in the relationship but she is not the one. Tell her I tried with you but realise I deserve more and yourve lost a great guy! GOODLUCK.

YOU MUST DO THIS NOW JISER< I AM EVEN GETTING UPSET AT WHAT SHE IS DOING Don't PUT ANY MORE THOUGHT INTO THIS> PLEASE RING NOW TELL HER SHE LOST A GREAT GUY!! AND HAVE A GOOD LIFE > WISH HER THE BEST>>>