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    Asked Mar 9, 2012, 09:32 PM ó 3 Answers
    My current girlfriend of 6 months now is really close to her ex. She is with her ex majority of the day. The ex female is a really big part still in her life. The ex is there 24/7 her ex finds out things before I do. I love her a lot and I want a future with her, but how do I know her, and her ex ain't ****ing around? Why can't she let the ex go?

    Our relationship isn't going to go any where if she can't let go her past. I can't seem to figure out why she can't let this female go. Then some days she can't even talk to me because she around. I think that I'm just this secret, but I don't want to assume anything with out finding out the truth first.

    But I know either way I'm going to find out, and I'm going to be hurt, but I just want to know if I'm wrong for feeling that if this female is a ex, why is she still around faithfully? Not one day goes by you don't see her, but you can go days without seeing me. I feel she hiding something, and soon enough it will come out.

    I just want someone else's input on what I should do!!

    Last edited by talaniman; Mar 10, 2012 at 02:39 PM.
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    Marriedguy Posts: 474, Reputation: 115
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    Mar 9, 2012, 11:00 PM
    Insecure and your have the right to feel that way. The relationship only six months old and the ex is hanging around not a good. If your girl doesn't see where you coming from that's the problem.
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    talaniman Posts: 53,250, Reputation: 10825

    Mar 10, 2012, 02:42 PM
    I personally would have nothing to do with someone whose ex is so much a part of their life still.

    Talaniman Rule - Never fall for some one that still has an ex in there lives.
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    Stellaw Posts: 171, Reputation: -1
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    Mar 24, 2012, 10:29 AM
    Don't sweat it. She's probably just really are friends with her ex. You're just being paranoid. Don't judge people if you do not want to be judged. But if you're really that concerned then you might want to hire a specialist to spy on her to know the real truth. Instead of worrying about if she's cheating or not, worry about yourself and try harder to achieve your short-term as well as your long-term goals.

    Life is too precious to think about nonsense things. Wouldn't you agree? I hope you find this answer helpful. I'd like to help you any way I can. I just wish I'm right, you know, that she isn't cheating on you. Focus on yourself from time to time and make her worry of you instead of the other way around.

    Think about starting a hobby or make money online or even start up a business just to get your mind out of her even for just a second.

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