My girlfriend and I had plans to go to San Jose this weekend to see her friend. But then she tells me her friend's boyfriend is not going to be there so she would like to just hang out with her friend, have girl time. It's a little annoying, yeah, but I accept it. We make plans to go see a movie when she comes back on Sunday. Then it's Sunday and I'm waiting for her to come back but then get a call and she says she's going to stay another day. This really annoys me. I hate the feeling that she's not making an effort to see me. But then I think, should I also just be understanding that she wants to spend more time with her friend she does not get to see so often. It's a weird place to be.