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    Mar 31, 2012, 07:27 PM
    I am not sure whether I still love her.
    I am not sure whether I love my girlfriend anymore. She treat me good, and get everything done for me, but when she is annoyed with me, she's likely to change to another person. Now she leaves me to a another city. She complains that I am not care about her because I haven't call her for 3+days. She asked me whether I love her or not, and she want an answer, what should I reply? Help me, please. I don't want to make the wrong choice, because she is good, except some points.

    I want to know that why I am not sure about the relationship,and what is the right choice, and what is right. Any help will be appreciate...
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    Mar 31, 2012, 08:33 PM
    I need to know your ages, and how long you have been together. Generally though, when you don't know how you feel about your lady, then you are not that happy, or don't need to even be together. Especially if you cannot talk honestly to each other.

    There is no right or wrong choice. You just have to know what you want from this relationship, and can you give her what she wants.
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    Mar 31, 2012, 09:22 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    I need to know your ages, and how long you have been together. Generally though, when you don't know how you feel about your lady, then you are not that happy, or don't need to even be together. Especially if you cannot talk honestly to each other.

    There is no right or wrong choice. You just have to know what you want from this relationship, and can you give her what she wants.
    I am 25,we have been together for 1 year and 5 months,I think if I told her my true feeling about our relationship,nothing left but just a breakup,it's the result we actually want?if I told her that I am not sure about my love with her,I think the hurt will never be fully recovered even we are together
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    Mar 31, 2012, 10:25 PM
    You cannot show feelings you do not have, as they can change over time. So can hers. The things is you do what you should do in an honest humble way. Break ups suck, there will be hurt on both sides. That can happen to us all, and many times in our lives.

    Its worse to fake it, lie about your love, and giving false belief in your words. No one knows what will happen in the future, and while a break up sucks, sometimes after a while apart, and healing has taken place, who knows if you get back together or not, or even want to.

    Honesty, is the way to go, no matter where the honesty leads, or the pain that may happen. So its important you both know what you want to do about the feelings you have now.

    Life is a process, and you have to let it work the way it will, and make some choices along the way.this is one of those choices.
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    Mar 31, 2012, 11:09 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Life is a process, and you have to let it work the way it will, and make some choices along the way.this is one of those choices.
    Life is painful ,but it's the most common thing.some one comes in yout life ,while others get out,it happens all the time but you can't figure out whether it's the last time you meet somebody,leaving only memories,I am afraid of that.
    Everyone has his/her story,thanks for your patiently listening

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