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salzar85 · Jan 8, 2009, 09:16 AM

Hi I am a bit confused abiut what is happening to me. I have been attracted to one of male friend but don't know what he thinks about me.

SaraKammeraad · Jan 8, 2009, 09:21 AM

Well, if your gay it makes more sense. And if your not it doesn't mean that your gay. I think your best bet is to not say anything to your friend at least not at this point in time. Even if you are gay and he is also, it could jeopardize your friendship and you should get things clear in your head before bringing something like this up.

xoxaprilwine · Jan 8, 2009, 09:23 AM

How close is your relationship? Do you know him through work or school? How old are you guys? How long have you known your male friend? Is he in a existing relationship (and if so what are the details of that ei. Length)? Do you have any indication he is interested in you? Do you know if your friend is straight, bi or gay? Do you know if your gay? How do you feel about it?

Generally, I would say flirt a bit and see what happens (how he responds), usually that will indicate what potential there is but we need to know a bit more then what your are saying... other then telling him you like him or asking him how he feels about your relationship. It depends on the relationship and how he feels about being in a relationship with the same sex. If he isn't gay then you can loose the relationship too, so let us know a bit more.

Starbucks21 · Jan 8, 2009, 09:24 AM

Well for starter age may be a factor in the answer...

Do you think you may be just more attracted to men then women in general?

There is nothing wrong with being who we are.

talaniman · Jan 8, 2009, 10:44 AM

How old are you?