Originally Posted by
nooshin
I am 27 years old and my partner is 28 years older than me.We have been dating almost 2 years. :
This has nothing to do with the rest of your statement. But I'd like to point out that if most 55 year men had a 27 year old girlfriend he'd be kissing you butt not the other way around. Although some will disagree, pesonally I've never thought it was a big deal to date somebody not your age. If you not happy with someone is a month older than you and you are happy with someone that is 28 years older than you then be happy. Your problem is your not happy. And you make excuses for him.
Originally Posted by
nooshin
I am really in love with him.
But he is a control freak. I can't spend my time with my friends.He doesnt let me visit my parents because they live in another city.Nobody can come to my house because he doesnt like it..I dont go anywhere without him. I can't take a trip.In fact he feels insecure.
He is obviously very insecure. But you can't change that. Only he can. Nor can you stay with him and bring him up. He will only bring you down.
These are signs of a much deeper issue about trust. He doesn't trust you. If after 2 years he doesn't trust you, he certainly doesn't love you.
Originally Posted by
nooshin
He can't trust me.
Great. I didn't have to say it, he admits it. Does he admit he doesn't love you?
Originally Posted by
nooshin
We had a break up for 4 months last year because of these reasons but he came back to me again.
Whoa! He came back to you? You mean you went back to him? I guess I don't understand how you could break up with him over this but he came back to you. You can't lie to make him sound better.
Originally Posted by
nooshin
What should I do?
Leave. Tell him flat out that a relationship involves two people, not one owner and one slave.
Originally Posted by
nooshin
We really love each other.
You love him. You can not speak for him.
Originally Posted by
nooshin
When we are together,we enjoy our time.But he is oversupporting.I want my space but he can't understand it.Please tell me how can I manage this relationship?:confused: :confused:
I don't see how you can. He doesn't allow you to bring anything to the table. It's just him and you have no choice. If you want choices in life and to be able to see your family and friends you need to rid yourself of the one that stops you from seeing all these people.