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    serena6878 Posts: 94, Reputation: 10
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    Nov 3, 2007, 08:44 PM
    After break-up
    After break-up, I free myself finally because I cry less than before. When we were dating, every evening when I was alone, I felt unfairness and doubts but I knew I loved him, I couldn't do anything but cry until I felt tired and slept. Now my world loses a person, the past sadness no longer relates to my emotions.
    After break-up, he would be happier because no more a girl would complain about him to bore him. And everything in the beginning is a little difficult for me. I come back to my own world, being single again. I see the sunshine quietly lurk on the campus, people hugging lovingly, I know I am out of the picture right now. If a person could not be certain of his feeling for me, why should I wait here for you? My youth, my heart, and my spirit could not afford his uncertainty.
    After break-up, his friends dislike me. They might think a thousand reasons that he is a nice person and I am ridiculous because he didn't do anything wrong. No, he didn't do anything wrong, but he also did nothing.
    So I deleted his family's photos because I want to forgive them from the moment on. They were not wrong because it is he that made me feel sadness, not his family.
    He gave me back something and said goodbye. But sorry, I would not give him back something. Those cards on festivals he gave me, and many memories of our past days, I would have them forever.
    No longer is there a girl loving a boy.
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    Nov 4, 2007, 06:03 AM
    In time life gets easier. You must concentrate on you and your life.
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    Nov 4, 2007, 06:13 AM
    There are times in life when we have to make decisions just like the one you've made. You don't need to feel any guilt or remorse for doing what you did. You did what you felt was right and it was your right to make that decision. It's always better to be in no relationship at all than to be in the wrong relationship. Right now focus on your education and other things that are important to you. Don't make men the major focus in your life right now ; it's about you and what's important to you.

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