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babyjokerr · Dec 8, 2011, 04:02 PM

Hey guys what's up!

Ok I'll get started, so me and my ex girl were together for almost 5 1/2 months, and the 19th is our 6th month together. But we broke up 2 days ago, but before we've had good times together, also we had down times, but what I don't get is she would still text me saying "hi" "hello" "goodmorning" and I don't understand why?

And also she has been ignoring me the whole day, for today, and yesterday I tried to not reply on her messages but I just couldn't. Also yesterday I went to the gym and hanged out with a few friends and I didn't have a problem remembering her but when I am alone, by myself, I start to think about her and in fact last night she called me and yes I answered and she said to make her sleep so I did.

Anyway the reason we broke up is that "there's another guy she likes" and "she's losing her feelings for me, bit by bit (i don't know if its even true).", because 2 days before our break up we were so sweet to each other and we were having good times. I also got to admit that I've been strict on her and we've had trust issues.

I need help guys! I really want her back in my life, I really missed her and I love her.

talaniman · Dec 8, 2011, 07:14 PM

Dude she dumped you, put you in the friend zone and keeps you close in case the other guy she likes doesn't like her.

Stop all this contact with her, its an old trick to keep you confused and thinking about her, and wanting her back. OLDEST TRICK IN THE BOOK! Its working too!

Now you know, protect yourself.

babyjokerr · Dec 8, 2011, 07:22 PM

I do want to stop all contacts with her but the thing is I still want her, I've been with 2 other girls before one is for a year and the other one is for 1yr and 2 months and I got over them easily, but I just couldn't on her (my recent girlfriend, the one mentioned above).

talaniman · Dec 8, 2011, 08:26 PM

Leave her alone and keep your dignity and self respect, or play the idiot. Your choice.

babyjokerr · Dec 8, 2011, 09:05 PM

When can I start talking to her though? I really miss her

geminichick · Dec 9, 2011, 08:21 AM

You don't talk to her. YOu keep her out of your life and move on. It's hard to do but it's for your own good. What's the point of wanting to be with someone who wants someone else. Don't text her, don't write her, don't make any unexpected visits to her house or in public. There is someone out there for you... she's most definitely not the one!

Homegirl 50 · Dec 9, 2011, 10:29 AM

You may want her, but she does not want you. Stop all communication with her. This is for your own sanity.
Don't grovel. It is not attractive.

babyjokerr · Dec 9, 2011, 05:03 PM

She's been texting me the whole day! :(

geminichick · Dec 9, 2011, 05:06 PM

Don't reply to her. That's what she wants. Don't contact her in anyway!

talaniman · Dec 9, 2011, 05:18 PM

Ignore her games, and avoid drama, and confusion.

pahlp · Dec 9, 2011, 05:20 PM

Step away from the situation and look at it from the outside. Say a buddy of yours asked for your advice (ill be frank to drive home a point), he tells you he likes this woman but she is "sexing" with some other guy. What would you tell your friend? Take your own advice.