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    Jessica09 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 25, 2009, 04:58 PM
    2 Year Relationship breakup
    Okay, so I have been dating this guy for almost 2 years now. He broke up with me two days ago for no reason at all. Yesterday he called me practically begging me to go back out with him. I told him that I didn't know. And so we haven't talked since. He has done this a lot in our relationship, as in, breaking up with me randomly and not explaining why he did it. He just asks me back out the next day and says "im sorry i'm a dumbass." all my friends think that he won't be able to find someone else because he isn't that good looking and he's a jerk. But I think he is good looking. But I don't know.

    but my sister texted him today and asked him what he was doing. And he said that he was with his girlfriend, and I drove by his house earlier and he wasn't home. But my friend told me that he's just saying that to make me come back to him and beg. But I don't know.

    what do you guys think? I need help.
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    Apr 25, 2009, 05:19 PM

    I think when you get tired of the kid stuff games, you'll leave him alone.
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    Apr 25, 2009, 08:51 PM

    Don't play any more of his games. To me he doesn't seem reliable. He's in and he's out, up and down, yes and than no... he's all over the place. It would be better to have someone that knows what they want. I think you should move on and find that person!!
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    Apr 25, 2009, 08:51 PM

    Tal is right. Your situation isn't that dramatic but sounds tiring. He should know how to be clear to tell the difference between break up or time off.

    And please don't beg. You'll just boost his senseless pride.
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    Apr 26, 2009, 05:18 AM

    I've been in your position before, as I had been with my ex four years and he was doing the same, my advice is to leave him alone and as hard as it may be carry on with your life without him.

    You will truly no yourself when you you wake up one day and realise that your fed up with his childish ways as I have done.

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