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    jerseygirl2479 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    May 11, 2007, 10:13 PM
    Sad, but happy
    I am engaged to a great guy, but I am in love with an ex. I don't know what to do. I moved to NY with the fiancée. I just started talking to the ex again. The ex and I were never intimate. I feel so strongly about him. I don't know what to do. I am stuck here in NY. I just want to see the ex. I want to be free. I have a son that is happy here, but I am more miserable as the days go by. I am starting to believe that I am not meant to be happy.
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    May 11, 2007, 10:36 PM
    If you are not in love with the man that you are engaged to, then you need to end it. You want to be free. It's time for a serious conversation with this guy before it goes too far!

    As far as the ex... he is an ex, and there is a reason for that. Most of the time you cannot go back. You will have to do some soul searching and work on yourself for awhile. You have to learn to be happy within yourself. If you can't be happy on your own, you will never be happy or satisfied with someone else.

    Sorry if it's not what you want to hear, but it is as honest and straightforward as I can be.

    Hugs, Didi

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