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    Doretta47 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 9, 2008, 07:06 PM
    I am renting to a woman that when I am at work asks my fiancée to go do things with her
    While I am at work, She is buying him gifts, and when I am not around talks vey sexualy
    Provactive. She accuses me of being jeaulos and possesive. I am getting the feeling she
    Wants to run the house and I am the tenant and she is the landlady. We are so afraid she will make something up or split us up. If she thinks I am not home she will ask him to help
    Her fix things, watch her work out etc. He came to me stating she hits on him when I am not around,
    How do I evict this trouble making schemer without trouble. What are my rights? My son is 15 and it is affecting him severely. I live in MA if that helps.
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    Apr 9, 2008, 07:19 PM
    How do I evict the romate from hell?
    How do I evict a woman who is causing my life to be hell? When I am not home she asks
    My fiancée if they could go do things together while I am at work. She buys him expensive gifts, talks very provactive when I am not around and makes it clear they should
    Be a couple. I am feeling disrespected and betrayed. She pretends to be a friend to both of us and yet we hide when she comes in for fear she will try to cause more friction. She is playing us against each other and we cannot take it anymore. My son has noticed her
    Disrespectful behavior towards me. Washing clothes every day and taking my clean wased clothes that are in the washer and throwing them in the dirty pile so I have to rewash them.
    She is always asking me when I will be home. We are afraid an feel she is diabolical and unstable. I feel as if she wans to take my life over. My son home fiancée etc. Can I serve her an evicition notice and how? What are my son's and my rights? I own the home.
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    Apr 9, 2008, 07:31 PM
    It is not a good idea to post a question as an answer to someone else's questin. I have moved your post.

    So you evict her if she is a renter, give her a 30 day notice to hit the road.
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    Apr 10, 2008, 01:11 AM
    Look into what the legal length of notice is in your state, and serve her with an eviction. Its your home. Is she on the lease or ownership papers?
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    Apr 10, 2008, 06:04 AM
    The first thing you need to answer is who's tenant is she? Are you both on the lease, or does she have a lease with you?
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    Apr 10, 2008, 07:52 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Doretta47
    I am renting to a woman that when I am at work asks my fiancee to go do things with her
    while I am at work, She is buying him gifts, and when I am not around talks vey sexualy
    provactive. She accuses me of being jeaulos and possesive. I am getting the feeling she
    wants to run the house and I am the tenant and she is the landlady. We are so afraid she will make something up or split us up. If she thinks I am not home she will ask him to help
    her fix things, watch her work out etc. He came to me stating she hits on him when i am not around,
    How do i evict this trouble making schemer without trouble. What are my rights? My son is 15 and it is affecting him severely. I live in MA if that helps.

    First, you start eviction proceedings; second, your fiancé grows a spine and tells her himself to leave him alone.

    Third, if you are afraid she is going to make something up or split you and your fiancé up - find a new fiancé, someone you can trust and someone who trusts you.
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    Apr 10, 2008, 07:54 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Doretta47
    How do I evict a woman who is causing my life to be hell? When I am not home she asks
    my fiancee if they could go do things together while I am at work. She buys him expensive gifts, talks very provactive when I am not around and makes it clear they should
    be a couple. I am feeling disrespected and betrayed. She pretends to be a friend to both of us and yet we hide when she comes in for fear she will try to cause more friction. She is playing us against each other and we cannot take it anymore. My son has noticed her
    disrespectful behavior towards me. Washing clothes every day and taking my clean wased clothes that are in the washer and throwing them in the dirty pile so i have to rewash them.
    She is always asking me when i will be home. We are afraid an feel she is diabolical and unstable. I feel as if she wans to take my life over. My son home fiancee etc. Can I serve her an evicition notice and how? What are my son's and my rights? I own the home.

    I answered your other posts on the same subject - posting the same thing twice is not helpful to anyone.
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    Apr 10, 2008, 08:06 AM
    I've merged your two threads. Apparently you piggybacked your question on someone else's thread, then started your own thread. It's a good idead to take a little bit of time to see how a site works before jumping in. If you have have any followups (and we do need more info from you), please reply to this thread.

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