My b/f and I live together, happily. He left to visit family and friends and I have not heard from him since he left. I am born oct 3/61, he is jan 18/61.We love each other very much . Will he come home soon? Does he still love and care about me? I know he had some family issues to take care of, but where does that leave me? WIll he be home here by summer?We where thinking of marrying late this year. I am susan , he is tony. Any help or advise will be appreciated.

SUSAN

If you live together and are in that much love, depeding on where you live and where he went to visit, he should be contacting you by email, phone or letter on a regular basis. You did not say how long he has been gone, do you even know he made it there safely.

And what family problem is he dealing with to be gone so long.

If he merely left you with no idea of when he is coming back and does not contact you, then no he did not care for you like you believed

Hi, Susan,
I am not a Psychic; don't pretend to be.
How long have you lived together?
How long has it been since you heard from him?
It's hard to answer your question, without knowing a little more.
But, as just a guess, if it's been more than 2 weeks, something may have happened to him. In that case, his family should have had your phone number and called you by now.
There's always the chance that he just left!. not coming back.
I do wish you the best, and good luck.

Yes. I feel it.

As the others have said we need a little more information in order to help you.

If he has just disappeared and the two of you were happy and had no problems and it has been longer than two weeks then I think you need to try and get in touch with him (if you have not already tried to). If he has a mobile phone, call it, leave a message if he does not answer. If you have his families number, call it. Ask them if they have seen or heard from him? Perhaps even call some of his friends? If he has an email address, drop him an email. Do what ever you can.

Yes you feel he is coming back by summer?

Whay would he disappear for such a long time without contacting you? You have got to wise up. He has either left you and been a complete coward in not telling you or something has happened to him. If I were you I would be concentrating my efforts to find out which and find out where he is. Sitting back and waiting for him to walk back through the door is not going to help you.

Yes you feel it. Can you tell me more? I know he is staying with a friend with a unlisted phone #. We both love each other very much. What else can you tell me ?

Thanks needkarma,
Sue

Sue, are you listening to what other people are saying?
Sounds like you are in denial about something.

Oh and if you know he is staying with a friend with an unlisted phone number-it's probably another woman. Sorry but hey-do you know his friend's name? If his friend has an unlisted number, how did he get in contact with his friend to make arrangements to stay there?
Sounds wrong-very wrong.

Shimmer, you need to accept the fact that he is having some doubts about the whole marriage thing and that is why he needed some time apart from you. Yes, he does love you but he is scared of commitment. He will contact you when the time is right.

Well well. Shimmer, you are only here posting to us because you want to hear from someone else that your love will return. You are not listening to the people who say he will not because you have heard this over and over. So you post here, nameless, faceless, looking for some glimmer of hope.
I am so sorry, but it is time to move on. love is pretty constant in that if love is whole made up of two and it is seperated it feels pain to be apart. If he then left under a guise of seeing family and friends and has not returned, this means one of two things: 1) He is injured and cannot by any means reach you or have others contact you or B) he didnt have enough love to feel the pain of leaving, so he left for good.

It will hurt for a little bit but pain from love is a good thing if you let it be. It has the ability to dig a hole deep into the soul that only love can fill. You do not need others to tell you over and over what actions are already showing you.

Hypatia

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My Dear Shimmer, it is obvious to me that he is not coming back.Look at the facts... he left telling you he was visiting friends or family... you've been together a while so you should know who these people are and be able to contact them, but you can't.

My first instinct was... have you checked with the authorities, meaning police hospitals etc.. but you then say that you know he is with a friend but under an unlisted number... he knows you cannot find him.

He hasn't bothered to check if your well or OK, anyone who loves another constantly will check their well being.

I'm sorry but you need to open your eyes to the real world, not only did he do a disappearing act on you, but he never had the common decency to tell you to your face... he is a coward and not worth losing another nights sleep over.

I am so sorry if this hurts your feelings but I feel he won't be back, you need to move on with your life and find someone who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve.

Takecare

Shimmer has posted here since April 2006. :)

Thanks.. my fault should have checked the date... whoops!

I hope shimmer worked out OK

I think what happens is that they post the same question on different boards and go with the answer they wanted in the first place.