I need some help solving these uneasy feelings within me. Last year my husband lied to my face about a young lady. In the same sentence he said I love you appearing to be sincere. I presented email messages to him where they had been in contact with each other. Recently we received a high school annoucement from a girl who attends our church. I asked who was the young lady I was told she attends our church. My husband began to tell her mother attends our church as well. I told him I did not know this girl or her mother. I'm pretty good with faces and names especillay at church. He asked me again and simply gave him a hard look and repeated to him that these people were not familiar to me. I then appeared to this look like "I better leave her along about this". Everyone thinks he is so charming. But I also know he can lie well. Anytime you can look your spouse in the eyes and tell them I love you and know you are lying something wrong. I have been really emotional about this and the fact he continues to desires last. For months we talked about attending an concert that I really looked forward to attending. At the time we were on the same page. He kept giving me the run around, this was known for a month. We ended up not attending and it really hurt me, because all of sudden he changed his mind. I have a feeling he is seeing someone else and he was did not want her to see us together. He really use to show he cares, but now takes things for granted. He is 45 yrs. Old and do not like talking issues over. I also believe this announcement was from possibly his secret child(daughter). Please someone help me figure this madness out. Thanks

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I truly believe to go with your gut feelings and your gut feelings are not giving you any comfort. If you believe your man is cheating, confront him in spite of his worldly charm and get rid of him. You don't deserve to be treated like that and you shouldn't be. Own up to your own self-worth... you count! And if he wants to play in the playground, let the children be and go on with your adult life. I know you love him, but if he behaves so irresponsibly and is not considering your feelings, perhaps it is because he is incapable and I am sure it has nothing to do with you but a character flaw on his part, go forward, move on... do yourself and self-esteem a favor and dump this loser! He will only make you miserable and all of the people you think he is attracted to... he will make miserable as well, so don't think you are losing anything here... you, my little pretty, have everything to gain... he has everything to lose!

Just because some one loves you does not mean they can't love some other person at the same time... Get that alimony.