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    mikey49 Posts: 43, Reputation: 0
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    Sep 18, 2009, 05:15 PM
    Did I mess up?
    Did I mess up a good thing with a girl "friend" of mine who rejected me as a partner? Her response was shallow pretty much inplying my bank account wasn't up to par. Although I'm a great guy, who is attractive, with good morals and fun to be with. I said some hurtful things, I really like her, but now I think the friendship is lost.

    Thanks
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    Sep 18, 2009, 08:29 PM

    Well you can do one of two things apologize and be friends with someone who may be snobby/shallow and doesn't think you are good enough IF she forgives you.
    OR be glad you found out this side of her and just move on with your life.
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    Sep 18, 2009, 08:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by mikey49 View Post
    Did I mess up a good thing with a girl "friend" of mine who rejected me as a partner? Her response was shallow pretty much inplying my bank account wasn't up to par.
    She is shallow. A girl like that does not deserve a "great guy, who is attractive, with good morals and fun to be with."


    Quote Originally Posted by mikey49
    I said some hurtful things, I really like her, but now I think the friendship is lost.

    thanks
    What you may have said was out of anger maybe even out of spite and disappointment. I wouldn't worry much about losing that type of friendship, chances are if she had that attitude she wasn't that great of a friend.

    Move on.

    Sarah
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    Sep 21, 2009, 09:49 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mudweiser View Post
    She is shallow. A girl like that does not deserve a "great guy, who is attractive, with good morals and fun to be with."




    What you may have said was out of anger maybe even out of spite and disappointment. I wouldn't worry much about losing that type of friendship, chances are if she had that attitude she wasn't that great of a friend.

    Move on.

    Sarah
    Thanks, Sarah! And all thosae qualities about me came from HER, and not me. So, you I guess she just wants a rich jerk.
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