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    Aug 5, 2005, 05:07 PM
    Broken hearted...
    We met last February and dated until about 4 weeks ago. It was very passionate and we both just had this emence feeling that we found our futures in each other.
    His life added up many stresses about the same time we started dating and he was wanting to spend all his time with me... Pretty soon it all made him feel so overwhelmed and we argued about every 3 weeks.
    Though he says he still sees us together and loves me so much, he had to break it off. He said the stresses he was dealing with was too much and he couldn't bear to argue like we had. Maybe we needed to walk away even though we both loved one another as much as we do. He didn't know what else to do.
    We decided to ease WAY off and try building a freindship foundation and see what happens over time. But, he has really put up a walll... I decided to not contact him at all and give him space to deal with all the things he has on his plate.

    I am so heartbroken. I have never met someone like him or felt this kind of a connection with anyone in my life! Being with him feels like being "home".

    What can you tell me? Will we be together again in the future?
    Me: 8/29/1971 Him 11/30/1968
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    Aug 7, 2005, 02:51 PM
    Toonsy
    Bummer about your luck! Lets be friends, talk about cliché. That's Bullll!
    Its amazing the load of crap that people feed one another just because they aren't grown up enough to just say it OUT LOUD! How do you go from a relationship that has been literally freight training along and making major plans to Lets be friends. Wah! Because he is a chicken heart when it comes to the truth.
    You know not to wait for this unfaithful liar don't you? And it was and is more than one at a time. Mr man(so called) has done this before. This man has never let his stable of women drop below less than at least 2. This is his energy this lifetime. And his biggest thrill is the woman that is already taken, no strings attached.
    This man has a little black book the size of a large city phonebook. If you were to actually put his name on the internet(dont) you would be surprised at the women who would reply and the things they would say about him.
    Yep, you argued. But don't you dare take 50% of the blame. This dude is a smooth operator. He had you pegged as a easy mark(and may others).
    Before you even clocked him. These guys look for women to jerk off. Classic case of no respect for any female in his life.
    Get your heart out of his back pocket and put in a safe place, back where it belongs, not sitting waiting fot him.
    I see a couple somebodys that have been wanting to date you but... you've been busy. Slow down take your time you are allowed.
    I know you want to love and when you start taking yourself seriously and taking better care of you, he will come. Not Mr man, some one new. But he is not the one either. But you want him or death bad too! Its not the next guy, go out to dinner, movie, baseball game whatever. But just not seriously. There will be 2 that you will meet about the same time. Within a week or so of each other.
    Date them both slowly, they will be good to you for real. But they will lack the drama that you have gotten used to. BUT THEY WILL TREAT YOU LIKE A WOMAN! And you can decide for yourself which one works best for you. Peace ranieri
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    Aug 7, 2005, 03:02 PM
    Ouch is right... I don't think ranier really knows the situation. You obviously don't have a clue about this guy. He is NOT a player.
    But thanks for your input.

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