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hxc_kate · Nov 22, 2007, 08:45 PM

Uhhh.
I think I might be pregnant
I had unprotected sex
But I have no symptoms
I'm not sick, my breast are not tender, I feel fine...
My period is just late.
And I wasn't ovulating at the time.
I've been kind of stressed out lately and just got over a real bad cold
Can you tell me something?:confused: :)

J_9 · Nov 22, 2007, 08:47 PM

Stress can make your period late. Have you taken a pregnancy test yet? If not, I suggest you do so using first morning urine.

J_9 · Nov 22, 2007, 08:57 PM

Thank you for the private message, but questions and answers via PM are not encouraged here.

So, you are 15. What is preventing you from taking a pregnancy test in the morning? You can buy them at any store and they are relatively cheap.

If you are not ready to be a mother you should either be using 2 forms of protection or not having sex.

J_9 · Nov 23, 2007, 08:59 AM

Again, thank you for the PM. The way to answer is just to scroll down until you see the big box that says "Answer this Question" and type away.

Now, from what you told me. That was rape. Plain and simple. No, you didn't say no, but you were intimidated into having sex, and that is rape. You need to tell someone, sooner rather than later so that it does not happen again.

hxc_kate · Nov 23, 2007, 11:06 AM

Ahhh I see lol... so it was? I thought that in order for it to be rape I had to match the way I felt with my body actions... I don't want to tell anyone cause then he will make my life hell for a longgg time

J_9 · Nov 23, 2007, 11:08 AM

Yes, hun it was. You should be making his life hell for what he did to you.

hxc_kate · Nov 24, 2007, 08:43 AM

hmmm okay thanks =)
I'm not sure how to tell my mom and dad
I don't think they will believe me
=(

hxc_kate · Nov 30, 2007, 05:42 PM

I have gooooooooooooooooooooodddddddddddddddd news! I started my period yesterday. I have learned a lot from this experience though and I am going to become abstinent again until I grow up.

J_9 · Nov 30, 2007, 08:09 PM

Congratulations!!

Just remember this lesson

Sex = parenthood

If you are not ready to be a mother, you are not ready for sex.

hxc_kate · Nov 30, 2007, 08:13 PM

I know this now.

I literally screamed and my best friend who knew what was going on was like "WHAT WHAT!"

and I ran out and jumped on her hahaha

I deff. Will remember that lesson for shur. Any type of embarrassment or rumors

beats the hell out of having sex with the guy and getting pregnant.

thank you for talking to me it really calmed me down and unstressed me =]

J_9 · Nov 30, 2007, 08:16 PM

Also remember hun, that if you ever do get pregnant, you are tied to the dude for LIFE. You may like or love them now, but what about a year or 2 down the road?

I said FOR LIFE!!

hxc_kate · Nov 30, 2007, 08:20 PM

No no... I don't like him at all... I just did it so he would leave me alone. And stop spreading rumors about me... I have a boyfriend now... he treats me muchhhh better... we only get to see each other because we go to diff. schools but he lives very close so we go for long walks with my little chihuahua after school... and he's taking it very slow with me. He hasn't had many girlfriends and is still a virgin... and if he stays with me that's how its staying... because I don't want this again... for sure.

J_9 · Nov 30, 2007, 08:27 PM

Okay, let's talk about this. I hope I am misunderstanding you...

You had sex so that he would leave you alone and stop spreading rumors right?

That only causes a guy to spread MORE rumors.

hxc_kate · Nov 30, 2007, 08:29 PM

Okay well what happened was... he would always tell these girls that I was talking about them... and not to be racist... but these girls were HUGE and black... and it scared me... cause we used to be so close.. and he was like okay here's the deal if you have sex with me I'll tell them you didn't say anything... so I did and he kept his word to...

J_9 · Nov 30, 2007, 08:34 PM

That's blackmail child!!

He effectively raped you with your consent.

hxc_kate · Nov 30, 2007, 08:40 PM

I know you told me this a few days ago.

J_9 · Nov 30, 2007, 08:41 PM

Yes, but now do you see how he manipulated you? Please don't let it happen again.

hxc_kate · Nov 30, 2007, 08:44 PM

Yeah I see it... but now that I got a new boyfriend he hasn't said a word to anybody about me. It relieves me big time...

J_9 · Nov 30, 2007, 08:46 PM

Please, just don't have sex with him. How long have you known him, truthfully.

hxc_kate · Nov 30, 2007, 08:49 PM

Who the one that I had sex with or my new boyfriend??
Boyfriend- he was my best guy friends best friend so about a year and a half we have been close
The other one- I met him when I was five years old and we hung out pretty much everyday for 10 years.