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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:15 PM
    Thought it was safe if he didn't go in
    About 3 weeks ago my boyfriend and I played in bed, we thought we were safe if he didn't go all the way in... but now I having second thoughts. I don't know if I'm pregnant or not and I'm afraid to tell my parents. I starting to feel nausous all the time, my temperature around my waist area is warmer than usual, having aching pains in my adomen, always tired now even if I get 8 hours of sleep like I should, and I'm starting to have headaches now. I don't know if it sounds like I'm pregnant or not
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:21 PM
    Did he go in at all? Have you missed a period?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:22 PM
    You may be pregnant, but you wouldn't have symptoms this early. When is your period due?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:24 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    You may be pregnant, but you wouldn't have symptoms this early. When is your period due?
    My period is due in week or around that time
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:25 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Did he go in at all? Have you missed a period?
    He didn't go in at all. But my mom says he doesn't have to go in to get you pregnant. He can be near it and still get you pregnant
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPea95 View Post
    he didnt go in at all. but my mom says he doesnt have to go in to get you pregnant. he can be near it and still get you pregnant
    She's right. Respond to teacherjenn, please. ***ADDED I see you did. Now you wait.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:28 PM
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    my period is due in week or around that time
    Your period is due in a week or so. If your period is more than 10 days late, then take a pregnancy test with your first morning urine. How old are you two?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:29 PM
    I'm sorry... reword that. I'm exhausted, my brain isn't... it dull right now. I can't process well...
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPea95 View Post
    i'm sorry... reword that. i'm exhausted, my brain isnt.... it dull right now. i can't process well...
    Reword what?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:32 PM
    Never mind I got it... takes a little longer. I tired and hunger. Have only eaten crackers and 7 up. I'm going to be 18 in a couple of months
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPea95 View Post
    never mind i got it... takes a little longer. i tired and hunger. have only eaten crackers and 7 up. i'm gonna be 18 in a couple of months
    You should see a doctor for your symptoms. Also, if you are having sex and do not want to become pregnant, speak to your doctor about birth control. But remember, no birth control is 100% effective.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:38 PM
    Actually I had to stop birth control because my cycle was completely of and I was having MAJOR mood swings to the point I started hitting and breaking things. HOPEFULLY I can go to the doctor in about a week or so... but I don't know because my mom is going thro breast cancer. And we don't have much money. And I know they don't guarantee 100%
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:41 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPea95 View Post
    actually i had to stop birth control because my cycle was completely of and i was having MAJOR mood swings to the point i started hitting and breaking things. HOPEFULLY i can go to the doctor in about a week or so... but i dont know because my mom is going thro breast cancer. and we dont have much money. and i know they dont guarantee 100%
    I hope it's just the flu, and I also hope your Mom gets well very soon. Be careful and don't give her anything else to worry about.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:41 PM
    Is there a Planned Parenthood clinic near you?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:44 PM
    I'm trying not to. That why I trying to find people that can help me and give me advice with out her finding out. Problem is I not ready neither is my boyfriend. His family loves me and so does this friend (acts like a father to him because his real one ran out on him and his mother when he was little) he is going to talk to us... maybe help us also with the doctors appointments
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:48 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPea95 View Post
    i'm trying not to. that why i trying to find people that can help me and give me advice with out her finding out. problem is i not ready neither is my boyfriend. his family loves me and so does this friend (acts like a father to him because his real one ran out on him and his mother when he was little) he is going to talk to us... maybe help us also with the doctors appointments
    If you two aren't ready to become parents, then you need to get educated about sex and pregnancy. As Wondergirl suggested, find a Planned Parenthood in your area. Are you still in school?
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:50 PM
    Yeah I am. I'm in 11th grade. It was his birthday... and I tried making him happy. I a person that tries to make people happy even if it harms myself... stupid... but it's me
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPea95 View Post
    yeah i am. i'm in 11th grade. it was his birthday... and i tried making him happy. i a person that tries to make people happy even if it harms myself..... stupid.... but it's me
    Time to make a few personality changes, especially if you dodge the bullet in this case and aren't pregnant.

    Girls don't exist to make guys happy. It doesn't work that way.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:53 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by SweetPea95 View Post
    yeah i am. i'm in 11th grade. it was his birthday... and i tried making him happy. i a person that tries to make people happy even if it harms myself..... stupid.... but it's me
    Talk to your school nurse, and she may be able to direct you to a clinic in your area. Always protect your body. It's the only one you have. Don't let anyone talk you into something you don't want to do.
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    Nov 11, 2012, 10:56 PM
    I tried making him happy. I a person that tries to make people happy even if it harms myself
    This is so very sad. If you are pregnant, at your ages, he won't stick around for long. I can promise you that.

    This is the only body you will ever have. You need to cherish and respect it.

    In a relationship both of you need to be happy for it to work.
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