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    Frankkk Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 12, 2012, 01:30 PM
    Scared about my girlfriend?
    I'm 17 and she's 16, we had sex for the first time a month a go and I was worried about hurting her. We took it slow and I held her hand through it, we used a condom but she still got pregnant! I love her and want to stay with her but I don't really want a baby. I don't want to be at the birth either because I don't want to see her in pain. I have them same feelings I had when we first had sex because I was really worried about hurting her and it being my fault but I'm worried if something goes wrong during the birth because it will be my fault. We don't want to tell our parents or abort or put the baby up for adoption! How can I make the birth less painful for her? And she really doesn't want a section/epidural so that's not an option. Help please!
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    Lorettah91 Posts: 25, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 12, 2012, 08:27 PM
    We'll all over your choices, you have chosen not to do so I don't know.. Epidural s are amazing!! But I don't believe in abortion or adoption.. I understand you are both kids but if you can lay down and make a baby, you should man/woman up and raise it.

    Remembering the baby comes before u!

    Having a baby, should be happy! You sound really selfish not wanting to be in the room! It's a great expirence!
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