Well, Here is my story... I am 10 weeks pregnant with my 4th child. I am 23 years old and my children are my life. I will have to say my 4th was unexpected and by a man a barely knew. I know that sounds bad, but after weeks went by, I got to know him a little better. I found out I was pregnant at almost 3 weeks. He says it is not his (even though I was around him ALL the time during the conception time.) I had a boyfriend at the time and I broke up with him because of it. Now I am seeing my ex to whom has been a friend of the family and in love with me for 10 years. He accepts all three of my children and my unborn. TJ, the unborn baby's father says he wants to be there when I have the baby but don't want to go through Dr. appointments or anything else. My boyfriend wants to be there as well, I don't mind them both being there because one will be my support and keep me calm, but the other is the biological father, I just don't want them to be uncomfortable. Can someone give me advice?