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hisgirlherman · Sep 20, 2009, 09:33 PM

me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex about 4 weeks ago and I'm 1 week and 3 days late... I been fellin like I want to throw up but I don't I have head acts and I'm tired or I can't sleep also been having flu like symptoms... my belly has also been getting bigger the frist day of my last mentrol cycle was on aug 27 of 09.. what do you think

justcurious55 · Sep 20, 2009, 10:16 PM

Any time you have sex there's always some chance of becoming pregnant. Failing to sue protection increases that chance. So yes, you may be pregnant. Or maybe your cycle is just a little of this month. How long is your cycle usually anyway? If your last period was 8/27, it seems like you should have almost another week to go based on the average cycle being 28-30 days. It is the beginning of flu season. If you think you might have the flu, you probably do.

hisgirlherman · Sep 20, 2009, 10:22 PM

Well it feels like the flu but I don't have it... my cycle is 28 days... what about my belly getting bigger

justcurious55 · Sep 20, 2009, 10:25 PM

Even if you are pregnant it's way too early for you to be showing. Sometimes your mind can play tricks on you. If you're concerned, tak ea pregnancy test.

Maybe it's too late and I just can't count anymore today... but if your cycle is 28 days, then don't you have a few more days to go until you should even be expecting your period?

hisgirlherman · Sep 20, 2009, 10:29 PM

Well my homegurl pregnant and if I am than me and her will be about 6 weeks with each other and she is 6 weeks and she showing... she says I am cause my belly look almost like her

ohsohappy · Sep 20, 2009, 10:43 PM

Originally Posted by hisgirlherman

well my homegurl pregnant and if i am than me and her will be bout 6 weeks with each other and she is 6 weeks and she showing...she says i am cause my belly look almost like her

Do you WANT to be pregnant? How old are you?

hisgirlherman · Sep 20, 2009, 10:45 PM

I'm 16 and if I am ill be happy and I don't believe in abortion cause I think when your having sex with a condom you know what your getting yourself into

ohsohappy · Sep 20, 2009, 10:49 PM

Originally Posted by hisgirlherman

im 16 and if i am ill be happy and i dont belive in abortion cause i think when ur havin sex with a condom u know what your getting yourself into

You're not going to be happy when you're unable to have your own future because a child is dependent on you. If you are consciously TRYING to have a child, you're an idiot. And your friend is very unlucky for being pregnant so young. If you're not intentionally trying to have a child, maybe because your friend is pregnant, then you need to be protected at the very least.

hisgirlherman · Sep 20, 2009, 10:51 PM

I can have a furture... and I won't blam anything on the child... im not trying to hear I'm stupid or anything I want to know if you think I am or not

ohsohappy · Sep 20, 2009, 11:03 PM

Well I told you exactly what would happen. But yeah, there's a good chance. I really hope that you're not. Trust me, it's not glamorous.

You can barely spell. Blam is BLAME. If you haven't finished your education yet, you shouldn't even consider having a child.

hisgirlherman · Sep 20, 2009, 11:05 PM

OK so I forgot to but a e... I have alll a's

ohsohappy · Sep 20, 2009, 11:06 PM

Originally Posted by hisgirlherman

ok so i forgot to but a e...i have alll a's

Your teacher must not grade on accuracy of spelling and grammar. You forgot aN e.

justcurious55 · Sep 20, 2009, 11:09 PM

You aren't even educated enough to come on here and properly spell words like "just", "blame", or "won't" and you think you're going to be able to have a future if you have a kid right now? How are you going to pull that off? How are you going to finish your educate so that you can get a job while working to support you and your baby and still have time to care for your baby? I think you may very well be pregnant but I hope you're not. And what about your boyfriend? Doe she want a child? Will he really stick around if you're pregnant? There's grown men that don't even stick around when their girlfriends get pregnant. Why would a teenager? If you're lucky, and not pregnant, USE BIRTH CONTROL from now on. A 16 year old deliberately getting pregnant is stupid. If you don't want to hear how stupid it is, don't do it.

ohsohappy · Sep 20, 2009, 11:13 PM

Originally Posted by justcurious55

you aren't even educated enough to come on here and properly spell words like "just", "blame", or "won't" and you think you're going to be able to have a future if you have a kid right now? how are you going to pull that off? how are you going to finish your educate so that you can get a job while working to support you and your baby and still have time to care for your baby? i think you may very well be pregnant but i hope you're not. and what about your boyfriend? doe she want a child? will he really stick around if you're pregnant? there's grown men that don't even stick around when their girlfriends get pregnant. why would a teenager? if you're lucky, and not pregnant, USE BIRTH CONTROL from now on. a 16 year old deliberately getting pregnant is stupid. if you don't want to hear how stupid it is, don't do it.

Better yet, abstain from sex altoghether. But I doubt she will do it, because people these days are very much controlled by the idea that "what feels good, is good" So they go around pleasure seeking, even though it's the most moronic thing they can do. People these days, and they just keep getting younger and younger.

hisgirlherman · Sep 21, 2009, 01:02 AM

1st its does not doe and its he not she and im the one that can't spell...

ohsohappy · Sep 21, 2009, 10:47 AM

Originally Posted by hisgirlherman

1ST ITS DOES NOT DOE AND ITS HE NOT SHE AND IM THE ONE THAT can't SPELL...

You realize that they just pressed spacebar too early right?

justcurious55 · Sep 21, 2009, 11:28 AM

You really want to start trying to proof read what I wrote? Go for it. Let me know when you're done, and I'll go read back through all of yours and we'll compare.

You seem to be trying to distract from the real issue here. And that's that you are way too young to even be considering having a child. Go take a pregnancy test. And if you're lucky, and you're not pregnant, start using birth control. Or, as ohsohappy suggested, abstain altogether. That's even better, then you don't have to worry about even needing birth control.

brittanymommy08 · Sep 21, 2009, 02:20 PM

Look they are right, you are 16 and you don't need a child. Get some birth control. I have two kids and it hard as hell. I'm only 19. I'm trying to make it in a world that don't care who you are or what you are. your best bet is to live while you can. just cause someone you know is pegnant doesn't mean you have to do it. you have no clue what you are talking about. Are you sure you want to be up 2-3 hours feeding a newborn, changing daipers, pee or crap. running them to the doctor. staying up with them when they are sick. MOTHERHOOD IS A FULL TIME JOB! People really don't know until they have childern. I know at 16 i didn't want kids, and I hear you saying you want kids i'll leave you with mine. i promise you would change your mind. my little girl 10 months old and still gets up in the middle of the night, and you have to get up. just think before you start a thread. you might not want to know what we think, pesonally i think your dumb for wanting a child at 16.

tiff2009 · Sep 21, 2009, 04:25 PM

I think u might be pregnant u should take a hpt or go to the doctor

danielnoahsmommy · Sep 21, 2009, 04:32 PM

No text chat please!