I have always been the over weight freckled face girl who wasn't the girl all the boys went after, I used to get made fun of by some growing up. So you can see why my insecurities aren't very high. I never really had too many boyfriends who wanted me for me.

Now that I am older, not ugly or fat.. my insecurities are still there. I don't know what to do to change it. Also it is messing with my relationship.

I find insecurities taking over everything and the bad thoughts run through my mind.

I've read different articles on how to fix it... but nothing seems to work!